To read all Usenet messages by Dave (as posted by one "davephx@primenet.com "), just click here. -------------------------------------------------------------- Permission granted for anyone to distribute this writing, or parts thereof, free of charge (including translation into any language)...under condition that excerpted portions remain intact and complete, including credit to the original author. -------------------------------------------------------------- HOMOSEXUALITY & THE BIBLE by Dave Liberated Christians, Phoenix AZ email: davephx@primenet.com http://www.libchrist.com Note: Liberated Christians is primarily about heterosexual relationships. While we are supportive of all sexual orientations, the leaders do not have the resources to assist them in their special issues. Thus, our Fellowship groups are not appropriate for gays/lesbians. However, individually Dave has done extensive biblical research and has been active supporting homosexuality for many years. However, there is no "official" stand as an organization on homosexuality other than general support. Church Tradition Only Condemns Homosexuality, Not The Bible - Overview How does the Bible address homosexuality - the word didn't even exist until 1869? The word first appeared in Germany to describe the theory that from birth some people are predisposed toward persons of the same sex. Since the biblical languages ( Hebrew and Greek) had no words for heterosexual or homosexual, it is anachronistic and misleading when homosexual is used to translate a biblical text. It is wrong to proclaim the biblical view of homosexuality since there is none. This violates the integrity of the individual texts and the biblical witness as a whole. Each reference to what is today homosexuality must be read in the light of the particular literary, cultural, and historic contexts of any particular passage. If Jesus ever said anything about homosexuality, it is not recorded in the Bible, even mistranslated. He did, however, speak extensively on God's unconditional love. Yet instead of dwelling on biblical love, Christians have historically been more concerned with obscure passages of Levitical cleanliness codes and Paul's misunderstood comments in Romans. Instead of focusing on the incredible injustice and hatred demonstrated by Christians and others, trying to deny homosexuals even basic civil rights, people appear more concerned with the specific homosexual acts between consenting adults who are naturally have a homosexual orientation. As James B. Nelson notes, the Bible more clearly advocates a "love ethic" rather than a "sex ethic." Detailed Biblical Study Of Homosexuality Traditional Church teaching falsely misuses the Bible to judge the homosexual lifestyle. True Biblical theology begins not with Church tradition and dogma but with the biblical texts themselves. Biblical theology seeks to understand how the biblical authors expressed themselves in the Koine Greek of the time (not expanded by later modern greek meanings), in terms of their culture. Only with this understanding is it legitimate to define biblical sexual ethics of the NT and find implications for today. There is little said in the bible about homosexuality because it was no big deal! It occupied a prominent and respected position in most Greek and Roman cities at all levels of society and among a substantial part of the population. There are only 4 scriptures that are taken to say anything about homosexuality; the Leviticus laws, I Cor 6:9, Romans 1:26-27, and the story of Sodom and Gomorrah - and none address loving, consenting homosexual acts as we know them today. There are over 600 individual "laws" in the Levitical code, the breaking of anyone of which would make the sinner unclean and unacceptable to God. It is an abomination to eat pork, etc. The law is no longer in effect and its purpose was to show that man could never follow it. The sins of Sodom and Gomorrah, likewise have nothing to do with homosexuality. I Cor 6:9, no way refers to homosexuality. The original Greek word often quoted as sexual immorality, Paul used was "porneia" which means "a harlot for hire". In Corinth in the temples of Venus, the principal deity of Corinth, where Christians went to worship, a thousand public prostitutes were kept at public expense to glorify and act as surrogates for the fertility Gods. This sex with the pagan Gods is what Paul was talking about - fornication is an admitted mistranslation and has nothing to do with gays or singles sex. This rendering reflected the bias of the translators rather than an accurate translation of Paul's words to a culture of 2000 years ago worshipping pagan sex gods. Romans 1:26-27 mentions homosexual acts performed by people who are clearly described as heterosexual. The men in the NT patriarchal culture exerted dominance not only over women, but over younger males as well. The nature of homosexual acts in the Bible are so very different from what we know as homosexuality today that the passages have no application to today's homosexuality. Such practices as in NT times simply no longer exist. Alleged references to homosexuality in I Corinthians and I Timothy are the inventions of anti-gay translators. They are not in the original Greek texts. For Serious Biblical Research - Resources Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality" John Boswell was professor of history at Yale and the winner of the 1981 American Book Award For History among other things. Boswell's 400 page book is renowned as being the most comprehensive study and is the result of ten years of research. Boswell's extensive study cites from over 100 other scholars works. Paul Robinson of The New York Times Book Review, says of the book "John Boswell restores one's faith in scholarship...His knowledge of the relevant scholarly literature is remarkable, and his book displays the sweep and control that one finds only in the work of a major historian. Newsweek in its review said "An astonishing work of scholarship that ranges with ease over fourteen centuries, almost as many languages..." Boswell goes on for 60 pages just on lexicography, texts and translations. He takes the biblical language very seriously. Boswell was a price winning, respected historian before his death from AIDS. Because he was also gay does in no way take away from his research was has been supported by many non-gay Christian theologians. "The New Testament and Homosexuality" Robin Scroggs, Prof of New Testament at Union Theological Seminary is a serious theologian and is favorable reviewed by many theologians. He is a married heterosexual. He also cites other theological professors that read his manuscripts and the final book is a combination of much insight from many Christian theologians. Scroggs, includes cites from Boswell and expands even further. "Body Theology" James B. Nelson, Professor of Christian Ethics, United Theological Seminary, New Brighton, MN. Deals with both heterosexual and homosexual issues. William Coffin, Pastor Emeritus, Riverside Church of New York, says "For all pastors, counselors, and especially Church members who are silent, timid, or negative about sexuality "Body Theology" is a godsend." Nelson calls Christian Homophobia a sin from Jewish through Christian times due to the false understandings. What the Bible forbids is acts of lust, rape, idolatry, violation of religious purity obligations, or pederasty, but no condemnation of homosexuality in relationships of mutual respect and love. "On the other hand, the Bible pointedly celebrates instances of same-sex emotional intimacy, a fact often overlooked by fearful homophobic readers. "What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality" by Daniel Helminiask, PH.D., was ordained as a Catholic priest in 1967 and is incardinated in the Diocese of Pittsburgh. From 1981-1985 was Assoc. Prof for Systematic Theology at Oblate School of Theology and earlier completed his Ph.D. in systematic theology at Boston College and Andover Newton Theological School. He currently is a pastoral counselor and a Fellow of the Amer Assn of Pastoral Counselors and has authored many books and articles. He concludes the Bible says absolutely nothing about homosexuality being sinful when you examine the actual Hebrew/Greek texts. "In God's Image - Christian Witness to the Need For Gay/Lesbian Equality in the Eyes of the Church By Robert Warren Cromey, Rector, Trinity Episcopal Church "In The Courts Of The Lord" by James Ferry (Crossroad $22.95) This is the account of a gay priest and the incredible journey his life took. "Stranger At The Gate" by Mel White (Simon & Schuster $23.00) Mel While, one of the most respected evangelical writers coming out of the gay closet. Mel was ghost writer for many of the books and speeches of Pat Robertson, Jerry Falwell and Billy Graham. This book details the authors attempts to hide from his natural homosexuality and his own journey as well as examine the religious rights agenda. White is Dean of Dallas's Cathedral of Hope, the largest gay church in the world. "Is The Homosexual My Neighbor? by Latha Dawson Scanzoni (Harper $12.00) This is the revised edition of the classic book that calls for Christians to reexamine their beliefs and attitudes toward homosexuals. The authors look at homosexuality from biblical, scientific and psychological perspectives. An excellent resource. "But Lord, They're Gay" By Rev. Sylvia Pennington. Author was a straight women who went to San Francisco was a "missionary" to "save" Gay people and found God in The Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) like she had never experienced God before. The NIV - New International Version Example Of Mistranslations When Bill was in seminary, he had two professors who were on the NIV committee. As with other translations, how to translate the texts into English was in very hot debate regarding some controversial issues. The debate within the NIV committee was between translating based on traditional teachings vs a more literal (or dynamic equivalency) translation limited to what was actually said as understood by the exact words in the culture it was written. Since most of the NIV translators came from a traditional conservative background, the majority view resulted in a traditional vs more historically accurate English translation. To varying degrees this is also true of other English translations which reflect more a conservative agenda than a search for God's truth. God's word should not be tampered with. That is why a serious student looks only to the original Hebrew/Greek texts seeking to understand what they meant to the culture in which they were written. You also have to realize the translation problems going from the words Jesus spoke in Aramaic (a very vague language) to the written Greek. Many serious biblical scholars are revealing false traditional biblical teachings, especially regarding sexual issues which are based on Church dogma, not original scriptural texts. Traditional Church Teaching Only the false teachings of tradition church doctrine condemns a whole class of citizens. This should be a serious issue that Christians need to confront and deal with. Some clergy are stepping forward such as in the MCC, and United Methodists Reconciling Ministries. But most mainline denominations for the most part, still indoctrinate in the name of God, the false biblical teachings. Even though I am very heterosexual and have no personal issue in these matters, it greatly upsets me that any should suffer for being what God made them. Council of Churches Dialogue on Homosexuality and the Bible with UFMCC. To discuss homosexuality, Robin Scroggs and Byron Schaffer were the only two scholars to present. When asked why a scholar was not brought in to present the other side, that the Bible does condemn homosexuality, "they said no scholar would argue that the Bible condemn homosexuality because it clearly does not; even if they personally feel homosexuality is wrong they would never argue that the Bible says so as a scholar". When the National Council of Churches can't find a reputable scholar to say the Bible condemns homosexuals, it is such a travesty that most Churches continue to teach bigotry and want to sell it as Biblical scholarship. Even A Bob Jones University Conservative Agrees For conservatives that think only liberals speak out supporting natural homosexual orientation Rev L. Robert Arthur, from Bob Jones University (I understand you can't get much more conservative) is also supportive. Background: Masters degree in Bible from Bob Jones University and further graduate work in Greek, Hebrew, Ugaritic, Akkadian and Aramaic. He served as Asst Dean of Men at Bob Jones, and as a Baptist preacher in Omaha Nebraska. He wrote "Homosexuality And The Conservative Christian" His book parallels the teachings of other scholars. The difference is he comes from a very conservative Bob Jones background and addresses such a conservative audience. His conclusion is the same that scripture does not condemn homosexuality as we know it today. He lays out 7 basic presuppositions which he is convinced of. He suggests for those with different theological assumptions other books use different presuppositions but still arrive at the same conclusions. His 7 presuppositions are: 1. Plenary-verbal inspiration of Scripture in their original languages. Means written by human agents of God in their own style, grammar but the end result were the exact words which God intended to have recorded. 2. Authority and infallibility of Scripture. Everything in the Bible (in the original language and context) are completely accurate. 3. For any accurate understanding of Scripture it must be read in its entire content. 4. The best commentary on Scripture, is the Scripture itself. 5. The language of the original Scriptures must be understood as it was used at the time it was written. 6. In order to understand why certain events and statements occurred, we must understand the cultural situation of the time of those events and statements. 7. Before we can apply the teachings of the Bible to present day, we must understand the meaning of those teachings in the day in which they were given. His perspective both in theology and hermeneutical principals is conservative as taught by Bob Jones one of the most conservative Bible Schools in America. Before you condemn homosexual behavior consider that your truth may be based on false understandings and mistransliterations of scripture in modern versions which may have very different meanings than the original biblical texts and the culture in which they were written. More Sample Christian's Ideas Is homosexuality a Sin? Seems that many who study the issue arrives at the same conclusion from all Christian faiths. Baptist: Rev Dr. William R. Stayton, Divinity degree from Andover Newtown Theological School and on faculty of LaSalle University's Grad program in Religious studies: - "There is nothing in the Bible regarding homosexual orientation. In fact, the Bible does not concern itself with sexual orientation. It does speak against gang rape, male prostitution for religious purposes, and pederasty. I lead bible study programs on this subject and am convinced that the Bible does not address the issue of a person's sexual orientation." Presbyterian: Rev. Dr. George R. Edwards, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of New Testament Theology at Louisville Presbyterian Seminary - "God does not regard homosexuality as a sin any more than heterosexuality." Catholic: Sister Mary Ann Ford, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary for 39 years -"Homosexual orientation is set by age five or six..it is not a matter of choice..How then could an all-loving God possibly violate Divine nature and regard homosexuals as sinners?. United Church of Christ: Dr. Karen Lebacqz, Ph.D., Professor of Christian Ethics Pacific School of Religion, BS degree in Biblical history from Wellesley College and Masters and Ph.D. in religion from Harvard University - "Scripture speaks negatively about certain behaviors, most notably temple prostitution, not about basic orientation or about loving gay/lesbian relationships. What God DOES regard as a sin is oppression, injustice, persecution, disrespect for persons. This sin, then, is homophobia, gay-bashing, refusal to include lesbian/gay/bisexual people into our churches - that IS a sin." United Methodist: Bishop Melvin Wheatley, retired after 33 years as pastor and 12 years as bishop of the Denver area. - "The scriptures at no point deal with homosexuality as sexual orientation...Those acts labeled as wrong out of the context of the times in which the writers wrote and perceived those acts to be either idolatrous, exploitative, or pagan. The kind of relationships between two consenting adults of the same sex which are mutual, affirming and fulfilling are not dealt with in the Scriptures. Homosexuality is an authentic condition of being with which some persons are endowed (a gift of God, if you please), not an optional sexual lifestyle which they have willfully, whimsically or sinfully chosen." This is just a few of 19 theologians from many denominations quoted in "Is Homosexuality A Sin?" brochure from The Federation of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays", all saying the same thing about the false teaching that the bible condemns homosexual behavior as we know it today. The false Church teaching is much more of an abomination and travesty than homosexual behavior. Study Of Romans 1 "Unnatural Acts" Paul is warning that many were guilty of worshipping man instead of God and therefore was becoming an idol. The love for that idol is an unnatural love called lust. Some men and women allowed sex to become their god (vile affections) and the result is turning the natural love for sex into something unnatural (verse 26). Paul does not specify what that unnatural sexual conduct is, but it is something not natural for those that have made sex their God. He could have been talking about both the male and female sex goddess prostitutes in the Temple like he was clearly discussing in 1 Cor. For homosexuals this part of the passage should not apply. To a Christian, God is first in their lives and not sex so they would not fall under this condemnation. HOWEVER, the issue is that Paul describes men as naturally preferring women. For men whose natural preference is for women, to have sex with a man would violate this, as in the case of pederasty. It is also interesting to note that these men must "katergazomai" the act of sex with other man. In Greek this means extreme energy is required to accomplish the deed referred to. This would also support the view that it was heterosexual males having anal intercourse with heterosexual males such as to degrade those captured in battle which was a common practice under pederasty. For a gay male, clearly this extreme energy is not required so it does not appear to have that meaning. Many heterosexual couples also enjoy anal sex, which is naturally enjoyable to them, not just to homosexuals. From this same understanding of Paul's use of the term "natural" there are many churches who would condemn a man whose hair is too long, based on 1 Cor 11:14. Or "natural" can mean what is customarily observed (cp. Romans 11:24). Certainly in Paul's day the usual preference of people was for the opposite sex. It appears more and more that homosexuality is a redundant characteristic of birth just as is being left-handed. If heterosexuality is the norm, that doesn't mean those naturally born homosexual are any less blessed by God. The Importance Of Romans 2 To read Romans 1 without Romans 2 is a great error, for Paul goes on to say that we are not to judge each other! He points out the self-righteousness of those who have judged the pagans just described in Romans 1. Then he reiterates Jesus' command of the Golden Rule in his own words: "to those who by patiently doing good seek for glory and honor and immortality, he will give eternal life (2:6)". So what's happened between Romans 1 and 2? Paul is using an "attention grabbing" technique like any good writer or speaker. In this letter, he is concerned with trying to bridge the gaps between Jewish Christians and Greek Christians who were judging each other and putting each other down. Paul starts by talking about those "awful pagans" -- a group which both Jew and Greek Christians felt superior to. He gives a laundry list of "sins" and the Christians are probably going "yeh, yeh, those bad people, we are better". Then, after having caught them in their judgementalism, he says "by judging, you pass judgement on yourself." By using a pagan example of sins, he could then go on to say, in effect-GOTCHA! Do not judge! He said, "God shows no partiality" (2:11). Romans 1 is being misused today to bash homosexuality much as the Jewish and Greek Christians were bashing each other in his day. He did not write Chapter 1 to be used apart from Chapter 2. His point was not to reinforce judgementalism but to say stop judging. Historical Reasons For False Teaching About Against Nature The idea of "against nature" had anything to do with homosexuality only occurred with the increasing emphasis of Hellenistic Jewish and Christian moralists on sexual purity gave rise in late Jewish apocrypha and early Christian writings. In the intellectual environment vehemently opposed to the casual hedonism of the Hellenistic world, many issues which had not been specifically sexual became so; this was the case with marital questions such as adultery, onanism and homosexuality. This was done by just slightly altering the greek words! The Judaeo-Platonist schools such is in Alexandria, greatly influenced some early Christians, since they combined the authority of classical learning with a tradition of Old Testament scholarship (responsible for the Septuagint translation which most Christians used). For Christians, The Alexandrian rule had great influence in what was considered "natural". In the third century Clement of Alexandria asserted that "to have sex for any purpose other than to produce children is to violate nature." This concept was also taught by Philo to Platonist Jews. Any use of human sexuality, potential or actual, which did not produce legitimate offspring violated "nature": all moral issues were subordinate to the primary duty of males to procreate. Celibacy was as unnatural as homosexuality, failure to divorce a barren wife was "unnatural" as was masturbation. Unfortunately Church tradition bought us these twistings of scripture and ignores true biblical research to find the truths of scripture. But many Christians and ministers just think they know it all and many are totally unaware of the background of some of their false teachings. That is why some of today's Christianity is such a travesty. But it need not be, if it taught more of Christ's teachings of love and acceptance rather than legalisms that have had their meanings twisted and were redefined by no other than Christ himself! Pederasty Was Against Nature Not Today's Homosexuality Many biblical scholars show that the Bible says nothing about today's homosexuality. In the new testament, a greek word study clearly indicates that Paul was discussing the Greek-Roman practice of pederasty or male prostitution. The practice of pederasty falls into three distinct styles. First is the voluntary relationship between an older man and a young boy. Second is the practice of slave prostitutes. Third is that of the effeminate "call boy" or prostitute. Other homosexual practices included a heterosexual male degrading another heterosexual male by anal intercourse after capturing them in battle. Pederasty including young boys acting as prostitutes for older males. In the greek, "Erastes" and "paiderastes" are the terms which describe the older adult who takes an active role in pederasty. "Eromenos" and "paidika" are the terms for the younger passive partner. There are two sub classifications "pais" means a boy before puberty, and "meirakion" means a youth past puberty. The noun "charis" and the verb "charidesthai" refer to the granting of sexual favors, as in the younger partner granting favor to the older man. There is no evidence of any references to same-age, same-sex, equal loving relationships in the Bible. Study Of Leviticus 18- 20 "Abomination" The background of Leviticus is important to understand. The people are being told not to act like the "pagans". This is also the format Paul uses in Romans. "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination." These words occur solely in the Holiness Code of Leviticus, a ritual manual for Israel's priests. This prohibition of supposedly homosexual acts follows after the prohibition of the idolatrous sexuality of worshipping Molech, whose cult included male cult prostitutes and bestiality. Lev 18 is specifically designed to distinguish the Jews from the pagans who worshipped the multiple gods of fertility cults. It also is included with other Mosaic laws such as required killing kids who curse their parents, the death penalty for picking up sticks or doing other work on the Sabbath, and under the law, slave-beating was a protected legal right! From a Jewish prospective, the commandments given at Sinai, including those of Leviticus (in Hebrew Jews simply name a book after the first word that appears - "V'yikra" - which means "then he spoke") were given to the Jewish people. Since they were only commanded to Jews, no one who is not Jewish need worry about obeying them. Judaism holds God taught basic laws to all humanity before Sinai (no murder, rape, etc), but that the more specific laws such as in Leviticus, apply only to Jews. Lev 20:13 is giving the penalties for the Lev 18:22 "abomination" or in the Hebrew "toevah" Unlike what the English translation implies, toevah did not usually signify something intrinsically evil, but something ritually unclean for Jews. Eating pork, shellfish, lobster, eating meat 3 days old, trimming beards, etc is just as much an "abomination". It is used throughout the OT to designate those Jewish sins which involve ethnic contamination or idolatry. In many other OT verses it simply means idolatry. Lev 18 is specifically designed to distinguish the Jews from the pagans among whom they had been living. The prohibition of supposedly homosexual acts follows after the prohibition of idolatrous sexuality of worshipping Molech, whose cult included male cult prostitutes and bestiality. Chapter 20 begins with a prohibition of sexual idolatry almost identical with this, and like 18, its manifest purpose is to elaborate a system of ritual "cleanliness" whereby the Jews will be distinguished from neighboring peoples. This was also the interpretation given by later Jewish commentaries such as those of Maimonides. Boswell also references much Jewish historic discussion about the non practice of the death penalty which is also mandated for violating the Sabbath, cursing one's parents and many infractions listed in the Talmud. Internet Reply to My Leviticus: From Royce Buehler buehler@space.mit.edu. Internet Subject "Where does which Bible condemn Homosexuality": "As they stated, it does not mean something inherently evil, but something taboo, something ritually unclean. Of course, some acts that are "toevah" were more serious than others. The most serious act of "toevah" was idolatry. It too carried a death penalty. Now, one common form of idolatry among the peoples surrounding Israel was male sacred prostitution. It is quite natural that engaging in that specific form of idolatry would also carry the death Penalty. Of course, if something carries the death penalty, it is of particular importance to the Lord. If you draw up a list of all the offenses given in Leviticus for which the death penalty is prescribed, you will find every one of them (with some minor shifts concerning particular forms of sanguinity in incest) is forbidden expressly once again in Deuteronomy. There is one exception. Only one. Of all the capital crimes, only one was so unimportant to God that He didn't bother to bring it up again. Guess which one. :-) However, interestingly enough, Deuteronomy *does* forbid male sacred prostitution. And Leviticus does not. Do you think, just maybe, that God *did* forbid it in Leviticus? Say, around 20:13? No, if that were true, God would probably have put commands against other kinds of idolatry in the same place. You know: no fortunetelling, no wizardry, no sacrifices to Moloch. Oops, what do you know, those are all right there in the same section of Leviticus too. Chapter 20. And when 1 Kings tells about the sacred male prostitutes being kicked out of the Temple, it repeats not just the word "toevah", but the assertion which closes chapter 20, that the former peoples were kicked out of the promised land for doing "all these toevah". Apparently male sacred prostitution made the writer of Kings think of Leviticus 20, rather than of Deuteronomy. Odd, that. And we never once see a concrete example of a condemned homosexual act in the old testament which is *not* an act of temple prostitution. (unless you argue that the Sodomites *must* have been frowned on for their homosexuality, since we all know that rape-murder of angels is just fine with God). And here those nasty male temple prostitutes get kicked out again over in 2 Kings. How come you never see Clark Kent and Superman at the same time? How come you never see a condemned homosexual act in the bible without being told that the actors were either idolaters, or actual male temple prostitutes? Could all this possibly, juuust maybe, be more than a wild coincidence? Are all those thousands of gay teenagers committing suicide over a stupid misunderstanding? Would it be all right to treat gay people as if they were ordinary human beings, and God wouldn't even get thundering mad? Comme un fou se croft Dieu, nous nous croyons mortels" In addition, the Hebrew theology of women was based on the fact man was made in the image of God and should be treated with the same respect as God. Women, however were created in the image of men, so they were one step further removed from God and not deserving of the same respect. As a result a women was under the domination of a man and used sexually at the whim of their husband. If a man were to treat another man in the same manner that would be degrading God. So to "lie with a man as with a women" was blasphemous degrading God to a mere possession as a women. The struggle over the issue of Christian and the Mosaic law was a serious area of confusion for the new converted Christians. Paul addresses this in Gal 5:1-2 urging Christians not to be "entangled again with the yoke of bondage" or to give "heed to Jewish fables, and commandments of men, that turn from the truth," for "unto the pure all things are pure" (Titus I: 14-15). Jesus said aside the purity laws and gave the commandment of love. Almost no early Christian writers appealed to Leviticus as authority against homosexual acts. Those few that did, exercised extreme selectivity in selecting which Levitical laws to say are legitimate for Christians and which are not, whatever suited their personal prejudice. It was clearly not their respect for the law which created their hostility to homosexuality but their hostility to homosexuality which led them to retain a few passages from a law code largely discarded. Most of Leviticus is simply not appropriate for Christians. We no longer make animal sacrifices to God as commanded in Leviticus. Most of us eat shrimp and lobster which is forbidden. Many people eat that unclean animal the pig. How many are guilty of rounding off the hair on their temples and marring the edges of their beard (Lev 27)? Jesus set aside all of these obsessive-compulsive purity laws and gave the commandment of love. Further Discussion Of "Toevah" In Leviticus As Not Immoral Regarding the Leviticus reference to toevah being false translated and having nothing to do with homosexuality: A further evidence of this is toevah is used throughout the OT to designate those Jewish sins which involve ethnic contamination or idolatry and very frequently occurs as part of the stock phrase "toevah ha-goyim" "the uncleanness of the Gentiles" (e.g., 2 (4) Kings 16:3). The significance of toevah become clear when your realize the other Hebrew word "zimah" could have been used - if that was what the authors intended. Zimah means, not what is objectionable for religious or cultural reasons, but what is wrong in itself. It means an injustice, a sin. For example, in condemnation of temple prostitutes involving idolatry, "toevah" is employed (e.g. 1 (3) Kings 14:24), while in prohibitions of prostitution in general a different word "zimah," appears (e.g. Lev. 19:29). Often but yes, not always, "toevah" specifically means "idol" (E.g., Isa. 44:19; Ezek 7:20, 16:36; Jer. 16:18; cf. Deut. 7:25-26). Clearly, then, Leviticus does not say that a man to lie with man is wrong or a sin. Rather, it is a ritual violation, an "uncleanness"; it is something "dirty" ritualistically. Lev 18 is specifically designed to distinguish the Jews from the pagans among whom they had been living, or would live, as its opening remark make clear - "After the doings of the land of Egypt, .....etc and the prohibition of supposedly homosexual acts follows immediately upon a prohibition of idolatrous sexuality (the female temple prostitutes worshipping the pagan fertility gods) (often mistranslated fornication but a obvious mistranslation in the proper context). This conclusion finds further support in the Septuagint where the toevah is translated with the Greek word "bdelygma". Fully consistent with the Hebrew, the Greek bdelygma means a ritual impurity. Once again, other Greek words were available, like "anomia", meaning a violation of law or a wrong or a sin. That word could have been used to translate toevah. In fact, in some cases anomia was used to translate toevah- when the offense in question was not just a ritual impurity but also a real wrong of an injustice, like offering child sacrifice or having sex with another man's wife, in violation of his property rights. The Greek translators could have used anomia; they used bdelygma. Evidently, the Jews of that pre-Christian era simply did not understand Leviticus to forbid male-male sex because it is wrong in itself. They understood Leviticus to forbid male-male sex because it offended ancient Jewish sensitivities: it was dirty and Canaanite-like, it was unjewish. And that is exactly how they translated the Hebrew text into Greek before Christ. It makes no statement about the morality of homosexual acts as such. In today's society similar unclean acts might include picking ones nose, burping or passing gas. I think its not that useful to get all hung up on Lev cleanliness codes which made meat eating and matching of fibers just as terrible sins. The NT is more significant for Christians following Christ instead of Jews trying to follow the OT rituals to be accepted by God. Jesus said not a word even mistranslated about homosexuality. Inspiration The Bible is a book of word written by males. It is not the same as the Word of God since only Jesus was "the word of God". Some of the male writers were inspired but it seems some were also very abusive and taught male denomination, that the earth was flat, that slavery was supported, blacks are from a cursed family and females need to be owned by males. Christians continued to be inspired today and have been throughout the centuries. Inspiration did not stop when the bible was canonized. You Have To Interrupt Scripture Based On Culture Of The Time Even if you could conclude that O.T. did teach against homosexual behavior, as with other parts of scripture, maybe there was a cultural reason that was important enough to teach against then, but not today. For example, homosexual activity plants the seed of life where it can't produce children. In biblical times, a man's economic and personal power was often linked to larger numbers of children (especially male) to help plant the fields and toil the land. Further, just as in dealing with the temple prostitutes, male homosexual prostitutes were also common and were also considered surrogates to the pagan gods. Philo of Alexandria, A Jewish-Greek philosopher and contemporary of Jesus said: "Those who during intercourse bring about the destruction of the seed are undoubtedly enemies of nature." (Ref: On the Individual Laws 3,36). Because of the sterility of their sexual acts he also sharply condemns homosexuals since their seed is not planted. Today heterosexual married couples who practice birth control are going against nature, and might be called an abomination, just as much as the homosexual. Mans Afterlife Determined By Number Of Children In the Jewish Hebrew culture a man achieved immortality through his offspring. For example, Onan practiced coitus interruptus to prevent his deceased brother's wife from conceiving, so the LORD KILLED HIM! The sin was not having sex with dead brothers wife (that was required) but the "murderous act" that murdered the dead brothers soul no longer immortal with no children. Since immortality is passed through the generations, it's clear why the sins for sexual deviation were so savagely condemned. Under those beliefs, homosexual acts, would have been murderous to all of one's forefathers since they did not pass on children to the next generation and jeopardize forefathers afterlife. Adultery was just as bad since it mixed blood lines. Singles sex was seldom an issue since everyone was married (often to many wives) at a young age. One's state in the afterlife, according to other contemporary documents of the time, was determined by the number of living descendants one had. The more children one had, the more wonderful one's position in the afterlife would be. Hence, it was important to have many children. This may have been why men of wealth had so man wives and concubines (women as breeders). Solomon was very wealthy and had 700 wives and 300 concubines which God never spoke against. Today we need less children not more so these "laws" relating to protecting the bloodline do not apply. This is an example of the Church making a whole class of people supposedly inferior and less spiritual based on unclear scripture that may have an entirely different meaning. Sodom and Gomorrah Had Nothing To Do About Homosexuality Some teach that the sins of Sodom and Gomorrah was homosexual. This has no theological support. A careful look at scripture corrects such ignorance. Perhaps one of the most misleading term in English is the use of the word sodomy to describe anal penetration and/or male homosexuality. The mere fact of this linguistic development sealed in the minds of many English speaking people that Sodom was destroyed because of homosexuality. The Church's false teaching on this issue is an abomination and travesty, not loving homosexuals that are unfairly condemned by this ignorance. God appeared to Abraham telling him that he and Sara would have a child and they were going to investigate the wickedness in Sodom & Gomorrah. Thinking God would destroy the cities, Abraham made a deal with God, that He would not destroy the cities if 10 righteous people could be found in Sodom where Abraham's nephew Lot lived. God sends two angels to Sodom, where Abraham's nephew, Lot, persuades the angels to stay at his home. Genesis 19 records that "all the people from every quarter" surround Lot's house demanding "to know them". It was common in those times to use violent and brutal rape as a way to humiliate and establish power over another, not unlike in some prison situations today. It is also done by heterosexual males which is very unnatural for them. This was part of the terrible acts of pederasty, the opposite of today's loving homosexual natural relationships. Lot attempts to protect the visitors sent by God by offering his two virgin daughters to be raped. The people of Sodom refuse them and the angels render the crowd blind. Lot and his family are then rescued by the angels as the cities are destroyed. ALL of Sodom's people participated in the assault on Lot's house; in no culture has more than a small minority (7-10%) of the population been naturally homosexual. Therefore it can be assumed most of the violators were heterosexual. Lot's offer to give his daughters suggests he knew the crowd had heterosexual interests - in fact offering young women for sexual hospitality was common. While it is unclear, even if homosexual rape was what the people were after it was do defile the strangers unnaturally between mostly heterosexual males against another heterosexual male as in pederasty. This rape attempt has nothing to do with loving, consenting homosexual love but was clearly not the reason for God's destruction of Sodom. Homosexuality can not be called one of the sins of Sodom, Gomorrah or Gilbeah since it is not in any of the lists of their sins given in the O.T. Ezekiel 16:48-50 lists the specific sins of Sodom as pride, plenty, laziness, uncaring for needy, haughty and worshipping idols - which was an abomination - not homosexuality. Some try and see in the word "abomination", a false reference to homosexual activity. This word translated abomination is to'ebah in Hebrew and is frequently found in the Old Testament. If one reads it in context every where it appears it is always connected with idolatry - never homosexuality. Just a few examples are in Deut 7:25-26 where it is the idol used in false worship, Proverbs 21:27 having to do with broader false worship etc. The people of Sodom were involved in idolatry. The attempts to stretch "abomination" to "unclean" acts in Leviticus as to mean homosexuality is just as false. That would mean that we would be just as justified to claim that the sin of Sodom was that of shellfish eating, beard trimming or that the sin of Sodom was menstruation on the part of the womenfolk for the same reason. Jude 7 References To Sodom "Strange Flesh" Jude 7 also provides another view of the sin of Sodom: "Even as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication and going after strange flesh..." In another discussion of fornication it is clear it is idolatry and has nothing to do with sexuality. But what is this strange flesh reference? A view of strange flesh comes from Gen 6. Here we read of a time when the "sons of God" cohabited with the "daughters of humans", resulting in a strange progeny called in the Hebrew "nephilim", a rare word indicating something weird or strange. To examine what is meant by "sons of God" look to Job 1:6. Here we see that Satan, a fallen angel, was before God as one of the "sons of God" we would understand the "sons of God" to be other angels. We again get the understanding that "sons of God are angels from Job 38:7. Strange flesh means a linking between angelic flesh and human flesh. Remembering that the two visitors to Lot in Sodom were angels, we see this was also going after strange flesh. This has nothing to do with homosexuality, but of the mixing of two distinct orders of creation. Why Not Condemn Heterosexuals Based on Parallel Events in Gilbeah? Judge 19 tells of a very similar event in Gilbeah, except that the house guest was a man, not an angel, and the people accepted the concubine women in place of the man. The concubine was raped until she died and the city was destroyed - for heterosexual rape and violation of the law of hospitality. Gen 34 tells of a rape of Jacob's daughter Dinah by Shechem the Hivite. As a result of this heterosexual rape, Shechem's home town was destroyed. Yet in spite of this destruction, we hear no one condemning heterosexuality on the basis of this passage, but rather a condemnation of rape. So also is the case with Sodom but even worse the attempted rape of strange flesh (angels). It is interesting that geologists say that the Five Cities of the Plain were situated on an active fault, where rocks are under tension and being pulled apart. A massive earthquake destroyed the cities in Biblical times, and unchecked fires accompanied them. The Dead Sea now covers the ruined Bedouin settlements that were once Sodom and Gomorrah. Homosexuality Is Clearly Not Unnatural It would seem clear that homosexual would never choose such a behavior that generated so much hate and discrimination. Genetic research, studies of brain chemistry and studies of identical twins raised apart, strongly suggest its not choice but nature. It seems clear that homosexuality is just as natural in humans as it is with other animals. The argument it is chosen is being clearly shown as false. Most compelling is the many personal accounts of those that have tried so hard to change out of the fear of God, but fail since you can not change natural sexual orientation. Many commit suicide, or leave Christianity feeling they can't respect a God that would make them gay and then condemn them. How can one believe that God condemns people who love each other tenderly and unselfishly just because they were born homosexual. It seems abnormal only because the predisposition is a recessive tenancy just as is left-handedness. Homosexual Sheep Since 1988, the Department of Agriculture has been doing similar studies in Idaho on hormonal and genetic differences in rams. The reason for its importance is not only to find human applications, but no sheepherder wants to pay $4000 for a breeding ram that isn't interested in ewes. In an extensive study they found the "Dud Stud Phenomenon" in some and other rams were judged to be homosexual. The study showed that about 8.5% of rams studied were homosexual - close to the estimate of 7-10% human homosexuals in the U.S. Epilepsy Epilepsy used to be viewed as demonic possession because it was not understood. The same may have happened to homosexuality. It simply is not understood by heterosexuals, thus it is condemned. Maybe we as Christians need to rethink this position and show more of Christ's love and compassion, rather than judgement. A Test For All Heterosexuals Try to imagine, I mean REALLY try to imagine this scenario. What if the Bible said that heterosexual activity was immoral, sinful, and to be despised and avoided, while homosexual relations were the norm the homosexuals were following the will of God. Now try saying to God: "I realize I am a sinner. My heterosexual life cannot be tolerated any more. I must break off my "wonderful" intimate relationships with my companion/spouse of the opposite sex, and make an attempt to live a normal life loving only those of my gender." Such a shift would be anything but a simple act of recognizing one's "sinful ways" yet that is what many expect homosexuals to do! And then they blame it on the Bible without knowing the truth of the greek scriptures and context. That is far more an abomination and travesty that condemning loving homosexual relationships. There Are Some Only Emotionally Homosexual Not Naturally A women who was raped at the age of 4 by a man, found much more emotional closeness and understanding with women, and "turned" lesbian. But then she "found" God and "converted" to being heterosexual. She was not truly a lesbian in the first place, her early life experiences caused her to fear and avoid men. Yet some Churches call this proof that all homosexuals can be changed. Similarly many men who had poor childhood experiences emotionally become gay. These situations exist but appear to me very much the minority. Most homosexuals were born that way, did not have some bad emotional experience but are naturally homosexual. Also some people may have a natural born bisexuality, to naturally enjoy both sexes. Homosexuality in The Hebrew Patriarchy Culture Although there is no moral condemnation of homosexuality as such in the Bible, those who cite the Bible, especially the OT, to condemn homosexuality need to realize the OT was written in a very patriarchal society. Homosexuality, at least among males, poses a serious threat to patriarchy and could not be tolerated. This influence in a social context clearly left a mark on the writings of the authors of scripture. At first it might seem that homosexuality among men should be well received. After all, the preeminent dignity of the male is a central doctrine of patriarchy, and what could be more affirming of that dignity than men loving men? However, this argument assumes that sexuality is closely associated with the sort of love that values the beloved and respects his/her dignity. Love in this sense is not an important component as sexuality in a patriarchy. Rather, sexual intercourse is one of the means by which the active male subjugates, controls and makes use of the passive female. Sex between men, at least when it involves some sort of bodily penetration, is seen as requiring that one of the partners assume the passive, female role. It is therefore inimical to the masculine dignity of that partner. If it is accepted as a possibility, it threatens the dignity of all men. This was a threat well understood by the Hebrews, who had spent a significant portion of their early history under Egyptian domination. Egyptian soldiers routinely sodomized their defeated enemies as a means of affirming the enemies' absolute subjugation. This indignity was no doubt suffered by many a Hebrew male during the Egyptian captivity, and its bitter memory probably influenced the approach to homosexuality in the holiness laws. Even today, it is not uncommon for men to assert their domination of other men by forcing the others to assume the "female" role. This is an important means of defining and enforcing the pecking order in male prison populations. In urban gangs dominant males often address subordinate males in derogatory terms that are feminine in gender. It is also interesting to note the absence in the OT of any hint that lesbianism is frowned upon. So long as marriage is obligatory for women and their sexuality is tightly controlled, lesbian dalliances pose no threat to the patriarchal order. It in only when women achieve some degree of control over their sexuality and committed lesbian relationships begin to be seen as an alternative to marriage that they become a threat. I Cor 6:9 Greek Study: Historical Background Paul's 1st letter to the Corinthians has been totally falsely twisted from the Greek to English. It says nothing at all about homosexuality only ancient idolatry. The temple of Aphrodite Pandemos, goddess of sexual fertility, dominated Acrocorinthus and employed 1000 prostitutes who served in sexual rites virtually around the clock. The Greek words pornoi, arsenokitai and malikos, were no doubt promiscuously available throughout the city, a city famous for her libertine rites in the worship of idols. Acrocorinthus was the dominant geographic feature enshrouding the Corinthian skyline and rose to a great height of 1750 ft. above the city. Corinth, herself, was a metaphor of fertility and libertine sexuality among the ancient cities of Mediterrania. Koine Greek has no word for homosexuals. Some English translations based on an agenda, not biblical truth have terribly mistranslated two Greek words to mean homosexual, but with no factual foundation to do so. Some concordances falsely claim: "arsennokoites" = a male homosexual, pederast, or sodomite and "malakos" = soft effeminate, esp. of catamites, men and boys who allow themselves to be used for homosexuality. It is the mistaken contention of some that Paul spoke of homosexuals in two other letters. The error comes from cultural bias which has crept into the translation of his letters; specifically regarding two words (*malakoi* and *arsenokoitai*). To the church in Corinth and subsequently in a letter to Timothy Paul wrote: "... Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor MALE PROSTITUTES (*malakoi*) nor HOMOSEXUAL OFFENDERS (*arsenokoitai*) nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." I Cor. 6:9-10 (NIV) "We also know that the law is made not for good men but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious; for those who kill their fathers and mothers, for murderers, for adulterers and PERVERTS (*arsenokoitais*), for slave traders and liars and perjurers." I Tim. 1:9-10 (NIV) What the NIV refers to in 1 Cor. 9 supposedly as "homosexual offenders" and later in 1 Tim. 1:10 as "perverts" is related in Paul's original letters with the single Greek word *arsenokoitai(s)* The translators for King James render the word as "abusers of themselves with mankind." Other modern translations construe the term as "child molesters" or even "sodomites" (ironic since we know that the Sodomites were not condemned for homosexuality). The claim this word means homosexual, defies linguistic evidence and common sense. "Koites" generally denotes licentious sexual activities, and corresponds to the active person in intercourse. The prefix "Arsen", simply means "male". It could mean a male that has sex with lots of women. Paul made up a new word. A biblical scholar when a word is unknown, looks for similar greek words to find a possible meaning. Boswell concludes Paul writing in Koine Greek, took a word from Attic Greek combined with a word from Old Testament Greek to mean the active male prostitute. These were common in the Hellenistic world in the time of Paul. They served as prostitutes for both men and women. BINGO! Remember "porneia" in the same verse that has been mistranslated fornication but was really female temple prostitutes? Guess what? Paul also is condemning the male prostitutes that also were in the temples of the sex gods! Hans-Michael (hans@teleport.com) did an excellent job of summarizing, on the Internet, the serious biblical research on this passage by saying: "The various translations of the idiom *arsenokoitai* as used by Paul give evidence as to its ambiguity. Arndt and Gingrich begin their citation of the term with the reference "a male homosexual." It might be helpful to have a lexicon to explain what they understood a homosexual to be. If the rest of their entry on *arsenokoites* is any evidence of this, then one may infer a certain amount of cultural bias on the part of these lexicographers. The citation goes on to list "pederast" (man who molests boys) and "sodomite" (meaning vague). Child molesters are a subset of both homosexuals as well as heterosexuals. A pederast is not however synonymous with a male homosexual." "The term *arsenokoitai* is only used twice in the original texts of the Bible; in the two passages by Paul just cited. Usages of the word by contemporaries of Paul (secular or otherwise) seem to be almost nonexistent. (Father D. Helminiak, Ph.D., a Catholic theologian writes in his book "What the Bible *really* Says About Homosexuality": "1 Corinthians is our earliest record of the word." Yale Professor Dr. J. Boswell writes in his award winning "Christianity, Social Tolerance, and Homosexuality": "Paul appears to have been the first author to use the word, and it appeared very infrequently after him.") Should Paul have intended to condemn child molesters with this word (as Arndt and Gingrich suggest and some translations reflect), a generalization of the passage to condemn all homosexuals would be disingenuous. "Where a modern translation reports Paul's contention in I Corinthians that "male prostitutes" shall not inherit the kingdom of God, the KJV speaks of "the effeminate." This poor rendering of the Greek word *malakoi* has been used to condemn gays for the past three centuries. The mistranslation owes in part to the already prevalent prejudice against gays present during preparation of this version of the Bible. It also illustrates a common misconception which is held by many people even today, namely the stereotype that all gay men are "effeminate" or feminine in their actions or appearance. Yet Paul was a Greek speaking Jew and a Roman citizen. In the culture in which he wrote the word malakoi, those who engaged in homosexual acts were not considered to be of questionable manhood. The Thebans even formed a legion of warriors composed entirely of gay couples. The group possessed an incredible esprit de corps and could boast of many victories. "*Malakoi* suffers from the same lexical complexity. The word *malakos* means literally "soft." There is no indication that it was used in the time of Paul as a derogatory remark leveled exclusively against gays. On the contrary, Hellenistic literature is replete with examples of heterosexuals being characterized as *malakos*. The label seemed to indicate some sort of general moral weakness or excess. The early church fathers invoked the word *malakos* against masturbation. Moreover they never used the word to imply being "effeminate" but rather list other terms for this purpose including *thelubrios* and *androgunos* whence the term "androgyny." "Did Paul intend to condemn homosexuals? It would appear that his writings leave us with no compelling evidence to decide in the affirmative. Regardless, Paul was a poor authority when it came to matters of sex. He remained single all his life and wished that all men were as he. He saw marriage as a last resort for those who couldn't control their sexual desires. Said Paul, "it is better to marry than to burn" (I Cor. 7:8-9). He thought marriage was good for younger widows to keep them from growing idle and becoming "gossips and busybodies" (I Tim.5:13). Although Paul was a devout follower of Christ who communed intimately with the Lord, it is fair to say that he didn't fully appreciate the love which God created to be shared between two people." It is a serious thing to take human bias and misrepresentations and then sanctify them by wrapping them in the robes of God's authority. That is clearly Scriptural abuse and God DOES warn strongly those that try and add to His Word. The real abomination is the false biblical teachings that hurt so many whose only "sin" is to be just as God created them to be. It is man that has twisted the biblical meanings for which he needs to repent and spread the truth that their is no sin in the natural sexual orientation of homosexuality any more than it is a sin to be a heterosexual. I Timothy 1:9-10 Serious Study This passage is similar to I Cor 6:9 in that the word arsenokoites is again included in the vices listed. Paul is combating Christian teaching he considers heretical. The list of vices seems connected in the order given, with pornoi, arsenokoitai and andrapodistai grouped together. So lets study what each of these words mean. Pornoi in normal Greek usage means a male prostitute and appears many times in literature of the time pointing to either the male who sells himself, or the slave in the brothel house. (e.g. Demosthernes, Against Adrotion 73; idem, Epistle 4,; Aristophanes, Plutus, lines 153-157 etc Hellenistic Jewish and early Christian usage, however, skews the apparent straightforward definition. The word does not appear in any Septuagint book except the post Old Testament Sirach 23:16-18. I does appear a few times in the New Testament. The problem here is that the word in Sirach and in the New Testament seems to have a meaning broader than "male prostitute" and is usually taken by scholars to refer to sexual crimes in general. But this assumption may be due to lack of awareness of the prominence of the male prostitute in Greco-Roman society which may have misled some away from it's more narrow original usual meaning. Within the text of 1 Tim there is no reason to assume it meant anything more than male prostitute. The juxtaposition of pornos with arsenokoites, however, should give pause before translating the word in a more general fashion. There is no reason why the same relationship between malakos and arsenokoites, that is, between the youth who is used and the adult who uses him, could not also pertain to the two words in 1 Timothy. Pornos may effectively function in relations to arsenokoites in precisely the same way as malakos does in 1 Corinthians. This possibility is further supported by the third word: andropodistes. This word means "kidnapper" or "slave dealer". While in our culture these definitions carry differences in meaning, in the culture of the first century they would be synonymous. One reason a handsome boy or beautiful girl would be kidnapped is to provide slaves for brothel houses. Thus the kidnapper or slave dealer is the one responsible for the pornos, who is used by arsenokoites. Should "kidnapper" not be related to the preceding words in some fashion, it would be unique in this list, since all the other words have some connection with a previous or following word. The three words would thus fit together and could be translated: "male prostitutes, males who lie with them, and slave dealers who procure them. If we reflect on the Septuagint it makes sense. There is the injunction against arsenokoites (Lev 18,20), pornos (Deut 23:18), and the kidnapper (Exod 4:16; Deut 24:7). Since arsenokoites must be a Hellenistic Jewish coinage, and since the vice list here does not seem dependent on that in 1 Cor 6:9-10, it may indeed be likely that this list originated in the Hellenistic Jewish circles. Therefore it may be concluded that the vice list in 1 Timothy may not be condemnatory of homosexuality in general, not even pederasty in general, but that specific form of pederasty which consists of the enslaving of boys for sexual purposes, and the use of these boys by adult males. Summary of 'The New Testament and Homosexuality" By Robin Scroggs, professor of New Testament, Union Theological Seminary, a happily married heterosexual who has been acclaimed in many Christian publications for his serious research about what the New Testament really says about homosexuality. Scroggs reason for his research was a discussion of homosexuality by ministers. "I sat amazed as I heard the Bible being invoked in ways that were wholly inappropriate to any canons of biblical scholarship. Perhaps something snapped in me...for better or worse I decided somebody needed to provide resources that would give both clarity and honesty." He says he has no personal interest but sees the tragic results of false biblical scholarship and the tragic rejections of homosexuals in the name of Christian righteousness or even love. It is about time someone spoke honestly about the issue, not just from emotional homophobic assumptions of what the New Testament really says. Conclusions: 1) The NT church was not very concerned about homosexuality as a problem, All three instances referring to homosexuality are from preformed traditions, either Greek or Jewish. No single NT author considers the issue important enough to write his own sentence about it! The argument "against nature" is the most common form of attack on pederasty in the Greco-Roman texts. Pederasty involved forced male rape even by heterosexuals and slave boy prostitutes. It says nothing about today's loving homosexual relationships. Even in Romans 1, where Paul integrates the illustration of homosexuality into his larger theological arguments, there is no advance beyond idolatry and pagan vices of 1 Cor 6:9. 2) Female homosexuality gets even less attention appearing only in Romans 1, and here with less emphasis than male homosexuality. This is doubtlessly because little was said in the Greco-Roman world about lesbianism, and because in OT law no penalties attached to such female practices. This again suggest pederasty was the vice, not homosexuality in general. In Romans 1 Paul's language "about male homosexuality, must have had, could only have had, pederasty in mind." 3) The two vice lists attack very specific forms of pederasty, not homosexuality in general. Scroggs concludes: "The basic model of today's Christian homosexual community is so different from the model attacked by the New Testament that the criterion of reasonable similarity of context is not met. The conclusion I have to draw seems inevitable: Biblical judgments against homosexuality are not relevant to today's debate.. should in no way be a weapon to justify refusal of ordination, not because the Bible is not authoritative, but simply because it does not address the issues involved". He concludes with more discussion that pederasty was the issue of the biblical texts, not today's homosexual relationships. So Called Ex-Gay Conversions It's not possible to change someone's sexual orientation, but it is possible to make them miserable over it. Fundamentalists play on the spiritually and emotionally wounded. Using the tenets of born-again fundamentalism, they try auto convince dissatisfied homosexuals - usually young gay men just coming out who are stressed out by family pressure and society's intolerance -that they can change by suppressing their orientation. The Fundamentalists prey on people who are unhappy. what they can't see or won't admit is that they themselves are the sources of this very unhappiness they claim to be treating. Countless people have been misled by ex-gay ministries into believing that sexual orientation can be changed, only to find, even years later, that they had found only temporary happiness in the delusion that they had changed. These "ex-gays" no longer call themselves gay but continue to have same-sex feelings, dreams and arousal. Add to that the pain of many spouses of these individuals who thought they had married a heterosexual. Anyone can suppress one's feelings and live a lie, for a time, but it doesn't work in the long run. Besides, living a lies doesn't seem like much of a Christian ethic. I've known dozens of gay men who at one time or another were pressured or lured into the fundamentalist-run ex-gay movement and all it caused them was more pain. No one I know ever changed. Not only that, no gay person I've ever met has known anyone who changed. When you look at someone trying to be an "ex-gay" what you find are rather sad, desperate people playing mind games and semantics, no "cures" or lasting changes. The whole motivation behind the movement to change gays is political - fundamentalist and conservative politics dressed up in a lab coat. The American Psychological Association (750 1st Street NE, Washington DC 20002-4242, Telephone 202-336-5700) has published a free booklet "Answers To Your Questions About Sexual Orientation And Homosexuality" I recommend it highly to anyone who wants unbiased information on this to The above from: THE DAILY DISPATCH, Moline, Ill. August 3,1995, Guest column by William Stosine Some so called "ex-gays" claim they have gone straight. However, the research seems clear that trying to change a natural sexual orientation on of fear of God and guilt seldom works. Perhaps it works for the few that weren't really sure or were there orientation was influenced more by emotional issues that biology. It seems clear however, most gays were born that way and trying to change them is forcing them to live a lie. Some may leave the "gay lifestyle" by altering behavior, but that does not make them heterosexual. They simply become non-practicing gays, that's all. Despite "testimonies" to the contrary, there is not one documented, authenticated case of a actual change in sexual orientation. There has only been change in behavior. Healthy skepticism needs to be exercised of those claiming a heterosexual conversion. One of may highly documented books on the failure of conversions is "One Nation Under God" which chronicles 40 years of people trying to find a "cure" for being gay. One example is Gary Busse and Michael Cooper the gay couple who founded Exodus, a "ministry" aimed at turning gays into "ex-gays." After a few years of teaching this dubious gospel - spread in pamphlets with titles such as "Unhappy and gay? Join the Exodus" -- they admitted to each other that they had fallen in love, quit their movement and started preaching tolerance and self-acceptance instead. They thus became "former 'ex-gays.'" "One Nation" exposes many other such attempts of how change groups appropriate terminology of other fashionable therapies - calling themselves a "recovery movement", while actually peddling Victorian values and using fear of God and intimidation to scare people straight, which often leads to suicide, not change. At their most absurd, some suggest that what gay men supposedly ought to do is play football; and for lesbians, what they supposedly need is a makeover and a good manicure. This would be hilarious if it weren't so destructive to so many whose only sin is being just who God made them. Sadly those that turn to Exodus International or the now defunct Quest are only asking for more turmoil and inner-hatred. There are asking for a life of continued guilt and despair. That is all such groups can offer gays who are struggling to come to terms with themselves in a hostile and rejecting world (including, sadly, a church that often joins in the condemnation based on mistranslation and application of the Bible. Another example is Kent Philpott's book, The Third Sex, in which he gives the testimonies of six homosexuals who supposedly became heterosexual. Within a year after the book was published, all six of the people written about sent notarized affidavits to the publisher, stating that the book was untrue and that they were all still homosexuals. Nevertheless, the book continued to be printed and sold to an unwary public for eight years afterwards. To this day, people are "praising God" for changes that never took place. The continued publication of that book, along with its promulgation for eight years after having received written denials from the subjects themselves, highlight the extent of deception fundamentalists are willing to go to foster belief in a goal based on illusion rather than reality. With fundamentalism it appears that honesty and truth are expendable items. The Kinsey Institute has had an open offer for nearly 40 years to report on a SINGLE case of a true change in sexual orientation, not just behavior. In 40 years there has not been a single scientifically documented case of changed sexual orientation. On Prodigy Richard Kennedy Jr : I worked on a national syndicated TV show. We contacted numerous groups to find individuals who were former homosexuals and were "cured." Getting lists of names, we called each one. One of our first questions was "did you consider yourself homosexual or bisexual before going in for treatment?" EVERYONE of the hundred-plus people we contacted (and remember our names came from the clinics) told us they were bisexual. We never found one who (out of 120 people) was "formerly gay" and "now is straight". We also asked the bisexual "cured" if they still have a sexual desire toward same sex contacts. Almost everyone who had been "cured" claimed to still have such desires. The handful of those "totally cured" were asked when they finished their treatment not one had their "cure" last more than 2 months. We never found a candidate for the "cured" homosexual program, so we had bisexuals instead. Lee Sinclair on Prodigy in a public posts states: "I spent 4 years in the ex-gay movement. I worked with the original founder of the Exodus movement. I am thankfully set free and GAY through much therapy and spiritual awakenings. It was a devastating experience. It taught me at the time, to hate myself and others. There was very little 'love' involved with the direction of that church of thought. I now feel good about myself again when I quit trying to change into someone I'm not. Thousands of gay and lesbian Christians who previously sought any means to change have now found healing from the self loathing society and the church has taught them to feel. They have gone on to develop Gay Christian organizations such as Dignity, Integrity, Affirmation, Evangelicals United, and the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches where they can truly share the Good News of God's love for all his people. They have further helped Gays and Lesbians learn to life lives of honesty and integrity, something which Exodus and the other "lie about who you are for the sake of acceptance: organizations can never do. No wonder 30% of gay teenagers attempt suicide when faced with this kind of guilt-instilling and self-loathing education. May God save His suffering gay children from the abuse and despair brought on by the well-intentioned, albeit ignorant and destructive, efforts of uninformed Christians and groups like Quest and Exodus International. Here is a bibliography of even more material that debunks the "ex-gay" claims of groups like Exodus. "Ex-Gays? There Are None" by Sylvia Pennington, Lambda Christian Fellowship, PO Box 1967, Hawthorne, CA 90250; Pennington worked for a "deliverance" ministry, but became convinced that it doesn't work nor does God demand it. The book is documented in great detail and discusses the Colin Cook/Homosexuals Anonymous scandal. Colin Cook, a Seventh-Day Adventist pastor, lived a secret life as a homosexual. He later claimed he had been "changed" and set out to operate a "change ministry" called Quest, out of Reading, Pa. This farce of a ministry attracted desperate parents of gays. guilt-ridden young gay men, and closeted married gay men, taking thousands of dollars for a "program" that turned out to be nothing more than a way for Colin to continue to satisfy his own homosexual needs. One young man wrote, "To those Adventists who would damn me to hell for being gay, I'll look you straight in the eye and say I've already been there. It was a place called Quest." The sad thing is that this program was supported, promoted, and funded by the SDA Church. At the same time, the SDA Church was attempting to sue Kinship International, a legitimate support group which truly ministers to the spiritual, emotional, social and physical well-being of SDA lesbians, gays, bisexuals and their families and friends. SDA Kinship facilitates and promotes an understanding and affirmation within the SDA community through education, advocacy and reconciliation. SDA Kinship believes the Bible does not condemn, or even mention, homosexuality as a sexual orientation. Ellen G. White does not parallel any of the Biblical texts, which are often used to condemn homosexuals. Most of the anguish imposed upon God's children who grow up gay or lesbian has its roots in a serious misunderstanding of what the Bible says. Anyone wanting more information can call their hotline 1-800-4-GAY-SDA or write to Kinship, P.O. Box 3840, Los Angeles, CA 90078 (info posted by Juliana Harvard on Prodigy SDA Topic.) "Can Homosexuals Change?" by Letha Dawson Scanzoni article in "The Other Side" magazines reprint of a wide array of articles dealing with Christianity and homosexuality. TOS, 300 W Apsley St.,Philadelphia, PA 19144. Not only deals with religious claims, but also psychological claims. "The REAL Changes Taking Place" by Ralph Blair article in "Open Hands" the journal of the Reconciling Congregations Program of the United Methodist Church (Vol 2,#2, Fall 1986). Documents the failure of the ex-gay movement, noting that most of the founders of these groups (including those that founded Exodus) ultimately return to the gay lifestyle. Dr. Blair has done a lot of work in this area for many years, and published "Ex-Gays" in 1982. Can write Evangelicals Concerned, 311 E. 72nd Street., New York, NY 10021. Change Minister Convicted of Manslaughter Rev. T.V. Moreland, pastor of Suburban Baptist Church of Glendale Calf, was convicted 6/22/94 of involuntary manslaughter for the death of Michael Larkin, who died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound. Larkin had been under pastoral counseling from Rev. Moreland for several months prior to his suicide. Notes and diaries found in Larkin's home and testimony from his friends and family revealed that Rev. Moreland had attempted unsuccessfully to change Larkin's homosexual orientation. According to Reinzi Page, Los Angeles Country Assistant District Attorney, this counseling caused Larkin to fall into a deep depression and was the direct, material cause of his taking his own life. And more research: After more than 40 years of research on gender identity and sexual orientation, John Money, director of the Psychohormonal Research Unit of the John Hopkins School of Medicine, has observed that "it is no more possible to change a homosexual orientation into a heterosexual one than it is to change a heterosexual orientation into a homosexual one." He reports that claims of change in orientations when carefully examined turn out to be those of "persons who are bisexual to some degree, but are not 100% homosexual, nor 100% heterosexual." Why are homosexuals often in great pain? Who is responsible for many gays being frustrated, angry, alienated and depressed by their situation? Gays would have no problem living their lives in peace and prosperity (they often have highest average income levels), if the majority who are straight would recognize the legitimacy of the sexual orientation most were born with. But straights and the Church especially based on lies and false biblical teachings, discriminate, demean and persecute them - not to mention the extra burden of feelings of guilt, inferiority and despair the church hangs around their necks until they choke and collapse under the load. Lets but responsibility where it belongs for the pain of gays and lesbians - at the door of the homophobic church and society. Homosexuals are six times more likely to commit suicide than heterosexuals and more are alcoholics. These facts say as much about the heterosexual as they do the homosexuals. Sick people in the "straight" community have long been bent on guaranteeing that the life for homosexuals is a living hell. The real tragedy is so many sincere Christians don't even know the lies they have been taught regarding the difference between the homosexuality that was condemned in the Bible vs the homosexuality of today. They Bible says absolute nothing that would not embrace and support with love today's loving homosexual couples. School Is Like a Lion's Den For Gay Youths Due To The Christian Lie One of the best examples of the result of the Christian lie was a story in Phoenix paper about the abuse gay teens face in school. About 28% drop out of High School. Support groups for gay students are almost nonexistent in Arizona. Patrick, a 17 year old has tried to form a group. His fliers were torn down, and the group's answering machine records 10-12 hate calls a day. For gay students, accepting their natural sexuality means becoming vulnerable to the emotional bombardment that comes with it: anger, fear, isolation, suicidal thoughts and wondering whether those closest to you will still love you. In a heterosexual environment listening to others talk about their girlfriends, watching them touch and share openly is really hard for gays since they know their relationships have to be in secret, or they have to pretend to be something they are not. Some gays who are "out" have found ways to disarm their attackers. Mike had taken to labeling himself "queer" and "faggot", words that use to make him cringe. "I asked myself, 'Why does this word have to hurt so much? Why does it have to be a negative?' So I took its power away," Mike said. Nathan 17, disarmed his attackers through his clothes. He would wear Gay Pride T Shirt, short shorts and even fishnet stockings. "When I made the statement 'I'm gay and you can't do anything about it,' nobody confronted me. When I dressed normal, I was called a 'fag' 50 times a day." Mike thinks groups could work well for those that are out but could be dangerous for those still in the closet. One sophomore who is desperately "trying to keep my cover" said there's no way he'd attend a support group. Every day is "like being in jail with yourself", he says of having to watch his every word and action. Mel White Comes Out Of the Secret Closet Mel White, the ghost writer behind many of the most conservative Christian books of Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson and others, announced he is done trying to beg God to change him and lead a life that is a lie, denying the homosexuality God gave him. For decades, Mel prayed for deliverance had a very happy wife and family, taught at Seminaries around the U.S. and wrote for the leading Christian ministries. After decades of prayer and biblical research he now declares "I am a Christian homosexual, God made me that way and I am proud to be a gay man." His wife of many years gave him a gift of divorce, not in anger but support so Mel is free to live with his gay partner. Mel, his wife and family, continue a wonderful caring loving relationships, and his wife fully supports his honesty, integrity and the sexual orientation he was born with. Mel says, in High School he could never understand all the guy talk about dating etc. He said, he would much rather hold hands of the football team, instead of the cheerleaders. James Kennedy on 60 minutes show is shown preaching how AIDS is the curse of God against homosexuals. Is he that ignorant or just intentionally preaching lies to promote his hate campaign against gays? Jerry Falwell talks on his radio show about sending people incognito to the Gay Rights Parade that was in Washington, D.C. He bragged about all the video taken and if you would only send $40 you too could see what the gays were up to. As one prodigy write said "I felt embarrassed for Christianity. Don't these Christian preachers know the message of Jesus? Or, do they just not care." Another prodigy writer: "I say a minister named James Kennedy on TV who was offering a book that I thought I would like to read. I sent him the money. I received a book and next thing I know I'm getting all this junk mail, telling me what a good friend I am to the ministry and how he wanted me to help him with the war on gays that he is undertaking. It took for letters to get them to take me off their mailing list. I Don't ever want to lose my Christian faith, but it sure is discouraging when there is so much Christianity that just seems so hateful and so phoney. I can imagine that people look at ministers like Robertson & Falwell and think if this is how God changes people, then I think I'll stay a non-Christian. Mel White said he would much rather be the loving gay and stand before God in judgement that ministers like Falwell, Robertson, or Kennedy that do so much harm to so many of Gods children. Christian Groups Press Gay People To Take Heterosexual Path Highlights of Wall Street Journal Article 4/21/93 At a Pentecostal church near San Francisco a gay man is agonizing over his inability to overcome his so called "homosexual sin". He cries saying he has begged God to free him by surrounding himself with Christians and spending a month in a inpatient treatments program but nothing has worked. He says "I'm having sex, I'm having fun, and I don't feel bad about it." The Christians suggest its a matter of choice and controlling the flesh, or maybe he is demonic possession. "I just want God to accept me," he finally says. The Christians in the movement to cure homosexuals thinks anyone can change "if they just relax and let God do what He want." Many mental-health professionals and former members of "change" groups warn that almost nobody's sexual orientation truly changes and that the road from homosexuality to attempted heterosexuality is littered with failure and suffering. Instead of God's love they find self-hate, failed attempted "normal" marriages, and suicide after they become so distraught over not being able to "cure" themselves. The change movement is destroying peoples lives. Exodus International is the umbrella organization that has 65 ministries trying to make homosexuals become something they aren't. The articles tells of many who have tried to live a lie as to their true sexual orientation and failed. "I think it's the greatest abuse of psychiatry in America today," says Dr. Isay, who is a Cornell Medical College professor and chairman of the American Psychiatric Association's gay, lesbian and bisexual issues committee. "The attempt to change is extremely harmful." he says. GAYS RECOVERING FROM TRYING TO CHANGE - OPRAH WINFREY SHOW Joel Payne praised Oprah and her staff for their acceptance when he appeared as a guest. For five years he was part of an "ex-gay" Christine ministry and found it was not valid for himself to change his natural gayness. The show is about people who THANK GOD for being gay, vs those who think they have to change into something they are not. Joel, is very happy he survived the ex-gay ministry and has come out as a loving, sensitive, caring, real, GAY man. He is now is at peace and rejoices in the fact that God loves him just how God created him gay! Even though he now is HIV+ he is better off than when he was trying to please Christians with their false teachings. It was great to see so many homosexual Christians celebrating their sexual orientation as well as their love for Christ. There Are Some Only Emotionally Homosexual Not Naturally A women who was raped at the age of 4 by a man, found much more emotional closeness and understanding with women, and "turned" lesbian. But she says she "found" God and "converted" to being heterosexual. She was not truly a lesbian in the first place, her early life experiences caused her to fear and avoid men. Yet some Churches call this proof that all homosexuals can be changed. Similarly many men who had poor childhood experiences emotionally become gay. These situations exist but appear to me very much the minority. Most homosexuals were born that way, did not have some bad emotional experience but are naturally homosexual. Also some people may have a natural born bisexually, to naturally enjoy both sexes. God In Today's Lives Not 2000 Yrs Ago CHRISTIANS.. WHAT if you are WRONG about a few highly disputed passages in the levitical code and Paul's teaching that may only have dealt with pederasty. What if many scholars are correct that the texts have nothing to do with today's loving gays and lesbians yet you are doing this: Lets just for a moment get our heads out of a 2000 year old collection of books, written in a different culture in another language whose interpretation is questionable and lets LOOK AT REAL PEOPLES LIVES TODAY! Example of a Christian devastating a lesbian seeking God's will - Actual public prodigy post to Mark who was condemning homosexual behavior and arguing with me, from a lesbian that jumped in: The Hurting Christian Lesbian "I have been in hell since I was 12 years old trying to change my desires. I married .. and dated as many men as I could in order to change my desire. I have cried out to God with such vengeance that my heart was breaking. Mark, I have anguished over this for many, many years. I am a Baptist, I have denied myself so much that I am in constant anxiety, pain and suicidal. I have been concerned about God since I was 10 years old, and He is extremely important to me, extremely, and pleasing Him is extremely important to me...I am in terrible pain Mark, extreme pain, this is not a light theological argument for me, this is my life." "I don't want a reply, especially if it's to tell me I am wrong, have been told that ALL my life in one form or the other, that is precisely why I have such turmoil within me Mark. I simply wish that straight people would please understand that this is not a flip decision that people make to 'live in sin' Mark. I just need to be able to have the freedom to talk with God and have Him help me through, surely He will do that?...I am in a very personal struggle right now." Mark replied: "you claim to be a Christian and certainly you will not hesitate to see what God wants to teach you in His word. Please read the following verses.." The last thing she needed was more scripture whipping that Mark takes so much pleasure in doing. Mark represents many Christians that would drive some of God's children to such deep despair. I believe such action by Christians is much more an ABOMINATION to God then loving gay and lesbian relationships! YOU are RESPONSIBLE to GOD for driving people from his love and you IGNORE Christ's teaching of love over the laws. All for a supposed sin that is no greater than the sin of greed, pride, women having short hair, speaking out in Church, mixing wrong fibers together or eating lobster which is more an abomination than supposedly homosexuality! I will be glad to stand before God, even if I am wrong, but upholding all God's children in love and wanting to bring them to Christ even with their maybe, highly disputed sin. The Hurting Christian Lesbian After Finding God's Love Now lets look at this same lesbian a few months later after much love and ideas from some of us terrible liberal Christian perverts on Prodigy: "I went to MCC and I was stunned. I have not felt that peaceful in a church. I did not feel looked down upon, unusual, condemned, hopeless, judged, or headed for hell. Tears came to my eyes numerous times just from the idea that God can love me too! I was in awe as I looked around at everyone and I felt so accepted, so loved - JUST AS I AM... That is the first-ever- I have felt loved in a Church and the first time I have ever experienced that God may indeed love me also. My spirit was dying of thirst when I went in. It meant so much to me this evening, a lifeline back to God." She found the loving God and Christ she knew was there, but could not find with all the sick Christians in the way. Fundamentalist teachings were much more of a sin preventing her to experience the love of God then the sexual orientation God gave her. In her words again: "I want to let all you kind people know I am realizing that I had never met God, but I had a bad case of Religious Addiction to Fundamentalism. I have been in the Church since I was 10. I have NEVER seen God as LOVE, not until I came here and met you all. I believe that God is going to bring me through this and I will get to know Him, without all the diseased people in between Him and I. I believe that my main objective today is to work myself towards a healthy spirituality, which for me, means breaking the chains of my fundamentalist roots". "I am through with this hypocritical life. Either something is terribly wrong, someone has misread the Bible, or there is an awfully cruel God, I have determined that option 2 is the most likely. I WILL pull myself from this cult, I WILL become a whole person, and I know that this will be accomplished with God's love and guiding hand. He has already guided me to you (support on Prodigy)." "And when I get through this completely, I will be a stronger women, a more courageous person, and a proud lesbian...and somewhere down the road I will, God willing, be a factor in another women's oppressed spirit finding freedom from this bondage of religious addiction." She now wants to reach out and show other lesbians the true love of God and Christ not the judgment and self-righteousness of many Christians. I ask: When you face God, who would you rather be. The condemning Christian, or the hurting Christian lesbian that now rejoices that God loves her as she is. I'd rather be the hurting Christian lesbian. Her experience and quotes used with her permission and her tremendous encouragement to use, wanting to reach other hurting lesbians and gays in Christ's love. More Examples Of Gay Christian Posts From Prodigy "I'm transported back 20 years to the time when I went to a religious college out of fear that I was gay. I spent years giving my life to god so that I could learn to be normal, non-gay. I feared being gay. I knew I would be miserable and I knew god would help me change. I prayed for deliverance. I graduated from that University and entered the secular world miserable. I was still in conflict. When I finally acknowledged who I was and what I was, a weight was lifted from me as only God can do. I have been gay since I can remember and after all the struggle and prayer the only thing I can conclude is that God lifted that weight from my shoulders and said now you finally know who you are, go live your life. I wish I had known someone like you 20 years ago. We all experience a different awakening when we finally find out who we really are." Sage Aphake "God Makes Gays" I am a GAY CHRISTIAN . I spent the first twenty two years praying for Christ to change me into a heterosexual. I spent my early years in deep prayer on a daily basis begging Christ to make me Heterosexual. I was miserable and ended up attempting suicide at 17 yrs old. I spent 5 years in therapy, all the time praying. Then Christ came to me. He showed me that he LOVES ME AS I AM. This is the way GOD made me and IT IS OKAY WITH OUR LORD. I live by Christ daily, and have a wonderful life and long term partner in a monogamous relationship. Jesus said to me that I was made homosexual for God's own purposes and not to question. He said my strength would grow in the face of oppression and a society that would condemn me. He said I would receive this extra strength by using love he has shown me as I live my life as Christ, in example to others. You are sadly wrong if you appoint yourself spokesperson for God. I did not choose to be who I am but was created by God. If you gay bashers would spend one one hundredth of the time praying that you spend on teaching others to hate Gays and that Gays are perverts with no feelings and are some how less than you and not worthy of the civil rights of America, the country would be so much closer to God. Thomas Prokop in response to a condemning fundamentalist "I have read God's word with a very open heart. I have read and prayed and then read some more. The Holy Spirit has helped me to accept my homosexuality. There was a time when my beliefs on homosexuality were similar to yours. Kirk, I can not tell you how many nights I cried myself to sleep begging God to change me, to make me "normal". I did everything I could to change. I dated women, I stayed away from other gay people, nothing worked. Don't you get it? I didn't want to be a gay. I very desperately wanted to NOT be gay. Unfortunately, heterosexuality is not something God chose for me. During the two years that I tried to change my sexual orientation, God lead me to some other gay Christians, and with the help of the Holy Spirit, God taught me that this is the orientation that He chose for me! Since accepting my sexual orientation, you would not believe the blessings that God has bestowed upon me! I praise God every day for the life He has given me, and for all the joy He has given me. Now, I don't consider my homosexuality a liability, I know my homosexuality is a gift from God!" Jeremy Johnson in response to the questions "How could you be a Christian and gay?" For a long time, I didn't think it was possible to reconcile my being gay with being a Christian. After, all, my church preached that homosexuality was an abomination, and that people who were gay were the vermin of the earth. During my deepest depression I felt only hate for myself and the deep-seated nature of my being-- all this without ever having had a physical relationship with another man! I lived everyday beneath a dark cloud of despair. Whenever the least measure of desire inhabited my thought processes, I would instantly pummel it away. Sometimes I would literally stab myself with a sharp object when these "impure" thoughts occurred. Then, one day I was at a crossroads. I realized I could go no longer handing this suffering. Before me was three choices: 1) I could kill myself and rid myself of being an "abomination." 2) I could go "crazy" and commit myself to an institution, 3) I could finally accept myself the way I was and accept that God made me that way. And whatever God makes is good! Since those dark and extremely lonely days, I have been blessed to find others who have been through the same terrible experience. We know today that many things the Bible says have been misinterpreted over the centuries to enslave and to disempower. Fortunately, Christ opened my eyes before it was too late for me. Christ's message is one of love. This being Good Friday, we as Christians are deep in contemplation of the passion, agony and suffering of Christ, who, I believe died for all our sins. Could there be any greater sin, than disavowing Christ's command to love thy God with all thy might, and to love thy neighbor as thy self? I believe and follow Christ and I am also gay. That's how I am a Christian and gay at the same time. Peace. Jeremy from NJ Dana Wilson who asked a bible misquoting zealot if he had any idea what agape love really meant saying: Do you know what that means (agape)? I have spent my life feeling condemned by people who attack, condemn, and try to biblically pummel anyone who doesn't agree with their view. If you would spend your time sharing real agape love, the world you exist in would be a better place. I can tell I wouldn't be able to approach you about me. You would spout off your so called understanding of the Bible, tell me to pray, have faith, stop sinning, be celibate, go to a straight doctor, and go to a retreat for learning how to be straight, or have demons cast out of me. Well, I've tried all those things in my life and you know what? I'm still gay, I have been my whole life. Yet I am a born again Christian saved by the Blood of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I am in a full time ministry, and I have lead dozens of people to Jesus every year. I share with them the real agape love of Jesus, see them accept Him into their lives. Then I get them into God's wonderful Word, and I let the Holy Spirit do His job. Back off, stop trying to play God. There are many homosexual Christians, get used to it, if not, you'll be miserable in heaven. At least by then we will be free from the hatred and bigotry your posts are so filled with. I love God with all my heart. If He wants me to be straight, I would have been born that way! Rodney Lewis discussing Are Gay Acts Sin? Have any of you ever actually met a gay person? You run around with your little Pat Robertson ideas and rant and rave about how supposedly gay people have sex with five hundred partners in their life. You put initiatives on ballots in states limiting my rights and making second class citizens of people you've never even met. I am gay. I don't consider myself a pervert. I don't have sex with children, and I don't do half the "acts" that Christians love talking about more than us, as gays. I've just spent three years unlearning to hate myself for what I am. I was so ashamed because I grew up in a society where it was taught that gays are just evil sick twisted child molesters. I did not ask for this. And if two years ago you offered to take this away from me so I wouldn't have to deal with it anymore, I would've so quickly accepted. I hated what I was so much, and I thought a about killing myself so may times. But now, this is who I am. My sexuality is something that helps to define who I am, and it a valid facet of my life, as your sexuality is of yours. You people have husbands and wives, and that is a part of who you are. I believe in God, but not in your god. I believe in a god, or at least some existence other than this three dimensional one. I do not believe in your god. My God is love. I don't even knowing exactly what love is, so I don't even know my own God. Your god is built on hatred and fear. Your warped ideas about God have you believing in him only because you fear a place called hell. Is there any sincerity in your "love" for him, when this love is acquired through fear? I don't think so. I don't dislike any of you, I just wish us humans would think before we judged and decided ourselves who is bad and who is good. Peace be with you. Rodney Lewis About Ex-Gay Groups - James Emerson on Prodigy I spent 10 years of my life in Pentecostal churches listening to everyone tell me that it was not "me". I tried for years to change. But for all the time and effort I put into the church, I received little back. I blame this on ignorance. I still feel the same about God as I always have, but only in the past couple of years have I learned to accept myself for who I am and be comfortable with it. There is not one heterosexual who can even begin to know what I feel or what I have gone through. I have never met anyone truly, truly changed to a different sexual orientation. God loves me for who I am, and that is all I can do about it. Sure, I can abstain from any sexual contact, but does that make me any less homosexual? I find nothing wrong with loving another person, and sharing everything with them, including a sexual relationship. It took me a very long time to get to this point. After years of examining every possibility...but I am who I am..and all of you who are who you are, and we need to love each other for who we are as God made us. About "Hate the Sin and Love the Sinner" By Gerald Daley on Prodigy My sexuality -which was God-given- is as much a part of me as my eye color. If you hate that, then you hate me. You need to realize that, and stop deceiving yourself that gay people will buy into the silly distinction that so-called good Christians like to make in order to appease their own consciences. As long as simply being gay is considered a sin, then we are bashed. Why do you group my sexual orientation along with adultery? I have been in a monogamous, loving relationship with my partner for then years. No, we cannot have children, but neither cam most couples past a certain age, or marriages in which one partner is infertile. Some of the most loving parents I know happen to be gay couples who have gone to extraordinary lengths to adopt children. "Good Christians" have thrown every conceivable (pun intended) roadblock in their path in order to do so, but they persevered and they are incredible parents. About working in a Homosexual Recovery Program by Steven McCauley on Prodigy I used to work with the homosexuals in my church through a recovery program. Of course, I was not alone, but no matter who presided over this ministry, the results were the same: 0% success. Our sister church had the same results. We were in contact with numerous other churches, all with a 0% rate of success. Having said that, I must admit that we had partial victories...One of our most promising individuals went for nearly 7 months without a "temptation". And we do have several individuals who have agreed to remain celibate and not act our their feelings. But we do not consider these true conversions (only guilt ridden), for they are still attracted to their own sex. And unfortunately, there are those who cannot handle their extreme guilt and take their own lives. This is why I left that particular ministry, for I did not want to be responsible for the immense guilt that is laid upon these poor people by the Church. I have learned that the well-adjusted and more or less "happy" gay individual is one who breaks off from mainline Christian churches and frees himself of the constant guilt trips. The miserable ones are the ones who remain under the constant condemnation of the Church. Comments From A Very Sincere Christian Gay I am a single, 43 year-old, committed Christian, and work full time for a Christian institution of mercy. And I am gay. I have no "gay agenda" except what the desires of my heart have always been: to find God's will for my life, to make sure I'm in the dead center of it, and to follow Jesus, no matter what. There are needs and desires I have. I have prayed, fasted, take frequent communion and confession but I still have the desire to be loved by another man. Whether homosexuality is a genetic determination I don't know. But I can assure you it is not a choice. Who would choose this and bear the scorn and hatred of the rest of the world? Just consider the mathematical impracticality of homosexuality being a choice. Taking the Kinsey statistic of 10% homosexuality in the population, this means that if you're straight, you have a 45% of the population available to choose a mate from. If you're gay, only 5% is available. Who wants odds like that? One day in Church the preacher began gay-bashing. "And these homosexuals coming out of the closet - that's not right." I whispered to my neighbor, "You mean that living in shame and fear and misery and secrecy and self-hatred is better, instead of bringing these issues out into the light where they can be honestly discussed?" A couple of months ago a lady came to where I work and talked about gays having to give up their lifestyle. I thought, "Let me tell you about my gay lifestyle. I get up in the morning, I say my prayers, I eat breakfast. I lead a prayer service for the residents. I work on typesetting Christian materials. I preach, speak at retreats, and act as singer for special services at different churches. And I'm celibate. And sometimes 3:00 AM finds me awake and weeping from loneliness. What part of my gay lifestyle do you want me to give up? Being gay does not have that much to do with sex. It has to do not with just who turns your head, but who turns your heart. You can stimulate yourself sexually, but there is no way to stimulate a hug. I often go into the gay bars to let my gay brothers know that Jesus loves them too. So many gays have been driven out of their churches. One such man is now bitter against God and the Church. He use to be a Pentecostal preacher before his secret came out. A Tragic Result Of Condemnation Mary Griffith believed that if her teen son Bobby prayed hard enough he would become a heterosexual. Bobby prayed for years, fearing he would be punished by God for his homosexuality. He wrote in his diary: "Why did you do this to me God - am I going to hell?" At the age of 20 Bobby jumped off a highway overpass and into the path of a 18 wheeler. In a letter to other gay people in the San Francisco Examiner, Mary Griffith wrote "I firmly believe that Bobby's suicide is the end result of homophobia and ignorance within most Protestant and Catholic churches and consequently within society, our public schools and our own family. Bobby was not drunk nor did he use drugs. Its just that we could never accept him for who he was - a gay person. We hoped God would heal him of being gay. According to God's word AS WE WERE LED TO UNDERSTAND IT, Bobby had to repent or God would damn him to hell and eternal punishment. Blindly I accepted the idea that it is God's nature to torment and intimidate us. That I every accepted such depravity of God toward my son or any human being has caused me much remorse and shame. What a travesty of God's love for children to grow up believing themselves to be evil, with only a slight inclination toward goodness and that they will remain undeserving of God's love from birth to death. Looking back I realize how depraved it was to instill false guilt in an innocent child's conscience, causing a distorted image of life, God and self, leaving little if any feeling of personal worth. Had I viewed my son's life with a pure heart I would have recognized him as a tender spirit of God's." The above is quoted in an excellent book "Is it Choice?" by Eric Marcus. I'd encourage anyone to read this book before pointing the finger to judge homosexual behavior. How Many Homosexuals ??? Some claim gays only make up 1% of the population, which would be about 2.7 million citizens. Considering 500,000 attended the gay pride day in New York City (police estimate gays claimed 700,000), this would mean 1 in every 5 gays living in the United States attended...including 3 year olds and 90 year olds. Obviously that is absurd, only a very small percentage of the total gay population would be active enough to go to New York for the event! The government study which showed 1.534% was not confidential but verbal in person interviews. With all the anti gay feelings in the U.S. what makes you think someone would admit to a government worker, in person, they were gay. What is amazing is that they did get 1% admittance. What makes the study even more ridiculous is it was conducted in two towns, both in states with anti-sodomy laws and consisted of only 3,371 people, all men! The Kinsey 10% study is also flawed but probably closer to the correct figure. Its problem is one of his many research assistants was gay and may have gone into heavily gay populated areas. However, Kinsey's study was conducted in all 50 states and with many more people. Since no other serious studies have been done, perhaps a 7% figure is most likely. Regardless the number 2.7 million or 20 million, does that mean we have the right to pass laws against all these Americans and deny them equal rights in housing, the military, employment etc? There are only 3 million Jews living in the U.S. This is only about 2% of the population. Should we enact anti-Jewish laws because there aren't that many Jews in America? Update on Homosexual Studies based on 1994 survey Source: Associated Press 9/10/94 "Same-sex attraction called high - up to 20% in US 'incidentally' gay" The problem with prior surveys is they asked people if they considered themselves homosexual. Of course the percentages were very low, since few people in our homophobic society would admit to it -especially to a stranger. A study by Randall Sell, James Wells and David Wypij at Harvard School of Public Health, found that 6.2% to 20.8% of American men and 3.3% to 17.8% of women could be considered "incidentally homosexual". The higher percentages are based on admitted homosexual behavior or attraction since age 15. The lower percentages are admissions of actual same sex behavior in the last 5 years. Again the true % of actual same sex behavior is probably much higher, but the admission rate is greater than past studies. The study also concludes that sexual orientation is often in a range rather than either at the extremes. In other words, many people are bisexual depending on the situation. The best guess of actual homosexuality in the U.S. population is probably 10%, again since it is likely in all these studies many will not admit their homosexual activities in our society that falsely teaches there is something wrong with homosexuality, which is simply a natural sexual orientation God gave many people.. Regardless of whether the number is 2% or 20%, the issue is to end discrimination and the false religious teachings that there is anything wrong with someone simply because they have a natural homosexual or bisexual gender orientation. Remember Jews are only 2% of the U.S. population, far less than the homosexual population. Yet no one is running around tying to make laws to discriminate against Jews. Homosexuals should likewise not be discriminated against, simply because God created them with a sexual orientation that is offensive to perhaps 80% of the population. Christians - WAKE UP ! Its time to take you scriptural view of homosexuality more seriously and honestly study before using scripture to condemn homosexuals. Mainline Christian denominations are now understanding that traditional scriptural interpretation may be false when you understand the culture and the greek texts. 291 congregations have now joined their denominational groups fully accepting homosexuals in love as part of their Church - without trying to change them! These homosexual accepting programs are: "Reconciling Congregation" (United Methodist Church) "More Light Network" (Presbyterian Church USA) "Open and Affirming" (United Church of Christ) "Reconciled in Christ" (Lutheran) An outstanding publication incorporating all 4 denominational programs is "Open Hands -Resource for Ministries Affirming the Diversity of Human Sexuality" The Winter 1993 issue has outstanding articles and lists 76 resources of CHRISTIAN materials affirming homosexuals in the Church. It has a question and answer section with a question: "Doesn't the Bible say same-gender sex is sin?" Answer paraphrased: This has been taught throughout church history. However, this tradition has been profoundly challenged by many biblical scholars over the last two decades. Just as the church has changed its interpretation of the Bible regarding other social groups (blacks, slaves, women, etc), so is its interpretation of homosexuality. The Bible teaches the love of Christ and never directly mentions homosexuality as we know it today. This love of Christ "to all persons in his society outweigh an exclusionary tradition built upon the interpretation of a few scattered Bible verses." Remember those that declared the earth was round, instead of flat, as the Bible indicated were once burned alive in the name of God, for their false round earth belief. I suggest anyone serious about the issue get a copy. $5 from Open Hands, 3801 N. Keeler Avenue, Chicago, Ill 60641 (312) 736-5526 (will take orders by phone). Take the Bible seriously and research the original greek texts meanings. Many Christian theologians and historians agree that loving homosexual behavior is nowhere condemned in scripture without mistranslating the greek and not understanding what was being discussed (pederasty) in the culture. I'm very heterosexual- but I believe any false repression due to race, sex or religion is a travesty, especially done falsely by attempting to change the teachings of God and Christ to support unwarranted bigoted and homophobic views. Christians need to escape false condemnation and learn Christ's greatest commandment-love. Sample Catholic Homosexual Fellowship Group Even Catholic bishops are now recognizing the false teachings. For example, Bishop J. Terry Steib, svd has officially welcomed the 3 year old group GRACE (Gays Rejoicing & Affirmed in a Catholic Environment). In Memphis GRACE has a chaplain appointed from the chancery office who lovingly accepts and has an outreach to gays in the Diocese of Memphis. GRACE isn't a political group. They simply want a supportive place to worship and grow in love through a deeper knowledge of God. By the power of the Holy Spirit they grow in numbers and fervor in their Christian faith. Gary Salles writes a column in their paper entitled "The Burning Bush" which deals with being Lesbian/Gay and Christian. Gary is a Cantor and finds it a wonderful experience of feeling love and acceptance within the Catholic Church. The Parable of A Sower As Applied To Homosexual Judging Jesus gives us a parable of a sower in which he teaches us that the message we will receive from his words will be in proportion to the kind of soil we have in our hearts. Thus a man with kindness and goodness in his heart will study the Bible and focus on the way Jesus lived, and Jesus's tolerance, kindness and love. Where another man or women with poor self esteem or the need to control others will only focus on those verses that allow him to claim power or authority. Such as the verses that give him sanction to point out to others that they are wrong in their faith or are sinners. Or, the verses that allow him to claim exclusivity and elitism. The way we view the Bible in regards to homosexuality reveals the type of soil in our hearts more than any other issue. In Leviticus God gave Moses laws to follow. Christians who claim that they believe in the inerrant Bible conveniently ignore all these laws - except the one they interrupt as being against homosexuality. Many scholars believe the law condemning homosexuality had to do with the unloving acts of pederasty, and nothing to do with loving homosexual relationships as we know them today. But Christians take this one, probably mistransliterated verse and go so far as to keep these people out of God's Churches for their perceived terrible "sin". Yet they allow others that break many more of the levitical laws in without any thought of even making them change from their sinful ways. Lev 27:18-23 tells us no one with disabilities is allowed to make an offering to God. Lev 19:19 tells that we are not allowed to wear clothing made of two kinds of fibers. Lev 17-10 very clearly says that if we eat rare meat God will turn against us. Duet. 23:2 says if a child is born out of wedlock he and his descendants for ten generations shall not be part of the Lords people. Duet. 22:20 says that if a women has had intercourse before marriage she has done a shameful thing. That we must stone her to death in order to get rid of this evil. So why do Christians allow their Churches to be full of descendants of the illegitimate, full of women who were not virgin brides, and full of people who eat rare beef? Why do most of these Christians who attend church go there wearing clothing made of two different fibers? And last why do they allow that all these sins but not the sin of the homosexual? Because they know in their hearts that these issues are from a time when men was not as civilized and had less knowledge. They recognize that these laws are barbaric or not needed today. But they still claim the law about homosexuality because they have hatred, bigotry and prejudice in their hearts. They use the Bible as an authority which then allows them the freedom to express their prejudices. After all they can or have committed the other sins but they do not have to worry that they will commit the homosexual sin. The poor soil in their hearts allow them to feel self-righteous by attacking someone that is different from them. They refuse hear the strong evidence that the Bible may have been mistransliterated and that a more complete understanding of the hebrew/greek and the culture will show nothing sinful about today's loving homosexual couples. They also ignore the overwhelming evidence that for most homosexuals, God made them that way, it was never a choice. God does not make mistakes yet many homosexuals commit suicide or live in terrible pain wanting to please God but unable to fulfill their natural god-given sexual orientation. That is far more an abomination than anything in the old testament. Gen 2:24 Creation Issues of Adam & Eve: The assumption that the creation of humankind through heterosexual union in Genesis and the subsequent emphasis on marriage throughout the OT demonstrates tacit rejections of gay sexuality is insupportable in a modern context, and it does not seem to have occurred to early Christians. First of all, man (male) was not created first. In Gen 1, male and female are created at the same time. In Gen 2, a genderless Adam (which means human being not male-Aner is the word for male) is created. Both genders are created simultaneously. The "cleaving to wife" issue in Gen 2:23: The Hebrew "issa" means "women". In Gen 2:23 it has been incorrectly translated as wife. Women not wife is more true to the original text every time "issa" or "isha" appears in the OT. Therefore it means to cleave to women, not necessarily a wife, and it says nothing about men having only 1 women, as men clearly had many wives and concubines in the culture and God never rebuked their polygyny. David and Abraham about much was written were never rebuked for having multiple wives. Polygyny later started dying out probably due to economic factors after the captivity. The point is for heterosexual males they should cleave to women and procreate since this was needed for humans to survive. But it says nothing about those whose natural sexual orientation was homosexual, where cleaving to a women would not be natural. It is obvious even to the most naive that in order to account for the origins of the human race the writer of Genesis would inevitably describe the creation of the separate sexes which produce offspring and would comment on the nature of the union which brings about procreation. One would no more expect an account of gay love than of friendship in Genesis: neither could produce offspring, neither had and neither would contribute to the story of the peopling of the earth. The fact that is many heterosexual couples are unable to procreate. The Genesis creation story is telling how the human race was created, but does not imply any condemnation of homosexual orientation. Today we need less children and more loving relationships - whether heterosexual or homosexual. The purpose of the procreation story has long passed and continued procreation is in danger of wiping out a large amount of humanity by starvation. We need much less fruit then when Adam & Eve got things started! The result of homosexuals not having more unwanted children to feed could be argued is more Christlike today. Times have changed yet some still legalistically cling to a theme which at the time of creation was good, but today such rampant creation threatens to destroy Gods people. This is not the love that Christ taught in the Sermon on the Mount where he changed all the laws and the prophets into only love. The creation account of Adam & Eve says nothing about God's view of those He created homosexual. I choose to love Gods children just as He created them, regardless of their sexual orientation, without having to make them change just for me to feel more comfortable. Why can't you just accept all Gods children instead of teachings that make a living hell for those whose only "sin" is to be as God created them. Hate the Sin but love the sinner - Similar to Slavery Issue That was exactly the same "Christian" argument that said "keep slavery but love the slaves". Why are Christians today any different from those that justified slavery by the clear teachings of scripture that slavery was Christian. Homosexuality is no more condemned in the Bible than Slavery. Its only the bias of the translators and lack of understanding about the culture and pederasty that results in English translations that completely change the original greek/hebrew cultural meanings. Just like slavery! Homosexuals are falsely oppressed and persecuted as were the slaves. Using any authority - government or religion - to subjugate gays, to deny them EXACTLY the same rights that "straights" enjoy is much more an abomination than their natural sexual orientation. These rights include not only the right to serve in the military, the rights to the same housing options, employment, to marry and raise children (artificial insemination, surrogate mothers, or adoption), to congregate in a restaurant or nightclub safely, without fear of harassment, the right to have private lives that stay private unless the individuals choose to make their sexual orientation public, and the right not to be called "sinners" simply for being born that way! Unless you are standing up for these basis civil and human rights you are an oppressor just like good godly folks supported slavery and oppressing slaves due to false interpretations of scriptures. NAMBLA ISSUES NAMBLA is a sick organization that most gays find as sick as straights. Gays refused to allow their participation at many Gay Pride Day festivities in 1993, including for example in Tampa, Orlando and Miami. As a Miami Gay reported, a local gay newspaper (which is struggling financially) refused a prepaid ad from NAMBLA. The Gay and Lesbian Community Center refuses to let them meet there. "NAMBLA" is a sick group and will never earn the respect of the gay community." - Dean Kennedy from Florida. Another good quote regarding the antics of some far out gays that the Christian Right are making sure everyone sees: "If you watched a video from a Christian source or just a few minutes of television coverage you see only the outlandish stuff. Visit a gay bar on a Friday night and you will see one person in drag in 100 guys in jeans and a T-shirt. For every one in leather, another 100 in jeans and polo shirts. Same with the gay pride parades. With 500,000 attending a Christian convention I could probably find...(a few with) enough make-up to scare Tami Faye Bakker on Halloween. Sure they are only a small percentage, but I bet I could make a 15 minute video totally misrepresenting the average person. I have been to a couple of parades (Gay Pride) and neither looked fractionally as weird as the coverage on the 700 Club News with Pat Robertson. He covered the New York parade and I saw his shameful editing skills. He sure misses thousands from P-FLAG or Gay Christians, but never misses the handful of DYKES ON BIKES or THE LEATHER GUYS. His editing looks like 90% are dressed that way instead of 9%." - Dean Kennedy The Child Abuse Poppycock The idea of trying to blame homosexuals for any child abuse is shear poppycock! As 7/12/94 article in USA Today "Child Molesters Rarely Homosexual" points out a child is 100 times as likely to be sexually abused by a heterosexual than a gay adult. It's unfair to connect pedophile with gay or lesbians. The view that homosexuals are likely child molesters often underlies custody challenges filed against gay parents and the dismissal of gay Boy Scout and youth group leaders. Dr. Carole Jenny of the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center, Denver, studied 269 sexual abused children examined during one year at Denver Children's Hospital. Investigation shows: 80% of girls were molested by a man who was or had been in a heterosexual relationship with the child's mother or another relative. 75% of boys were abused by males in heterosexual relationships with female relatives. Only 1 of 219 girls was molested by a lesbian; 1 out of 50 boys by a gay male. This is a much lower percentage than the likely 6-10% of the population that is homosexual, therefore the incidence of gays molesting is much lower than the rate for heterosexuals. Children Raised in Homosexual Homes Heterosexual children raised by homosexuals could no more "become" homosexual than a born-eyed child raised with blue-eyed parents would eventually become blue-eyed. As reported in USA Today 8/16/94 "Gay men likely to raise heterosexual sons". Why is it that nearly every homosexual child was raised in heterosexual homes where heterosexuality was not only the norm but expected and encouraged? Regardless of the home environment, people are the sexual orientation they are and home influences will not and cannot change that anymore than it could cause one to change eye color. Remember, in talking about homosexuals, we're not talking about a group of immoral, twisted, perverted people who woke up one morning and said "I'm going to choose to become homosexual." Their orientation was not a matter of choice and is a permanent part of their being, hence it is immoral for any family or church to pressure such people to even try to change. Notes on Jews and Homosexuality "It is not entirely clear from biblical material that there is a ban on homosexuality. It is true that later rabbis interpreted the bible this way. However, excellent material has been outlined in a book "Twice Blessed" which is a discussion of Judaism and gays, edited by Andy Rose and Christie Bulka. Andy is a gay social worker and active in the Jewish community. While orthodoxy remains rooted to older interpretations of this material, and remains largely homophobic, conservatism and reform are making advances in the acceptance of gays with an eye to the spirit of Judaism as the acceptance of all as human beings worthy in G-d's eyes." Yael Ben-Ari on Prodigy. Twice Blessed is ISBN #0-8070-7908-1 published by Beacon Press Boston Ma. Discusses also gay rabbis. Other references: Judaism: A Quarterly Journal of Jewish Life and Thought, Vol 27 No 1, Winter issue 1978 (Sin, Crime, Sickness or Alternative lifestyle: A Jewish Approach to Homosexuality by Hershel Matt. Article by Bradley Artson, Judaism and Homosexuality was written for Tikkun Magazine, Vol. 3, #2 (3/88). The Talmud And Jewish View I have lots of problems with the Talmud. It prohibits many things as Christians we do every day. The Talmud credits the Gentiles with three observations of the commandments given the sons of Noah: they do not draw up a marriage deed? (kethubah) for males; they do not weigh the flesh of the dead in a market; and they respect the Torah (Hullin 92b). The first of the three is as puzzling as the last. Homosexual marriages were well known in the Roman world, and most Jews were familiar with such aspects of Roman life. Two explanations seem likely: (1) the Talmud assumes that the absence of legal documents for such relationships demonstrates inferior status (ignoring the generally looser structure of all Gentile marriages); or (2) kethubah refers not to the legalization of the marriage but to a particular aspect of it, probably the dowry agreement (see, e.g. Maimonides, The Guide of The Perplexed, trans. M. Friedlander (New York, n.d.), 3:49). In regard to Lev, the Jewish commentaries of Maimonides and others agree that the passages in Lev 18-20 are not moral values but as symbols of Jewish distinctiveness. Also Mishnah's regarded homosexuality as punishable with all other idolatrous or ritually impure behavior; as well as later by Maimonides, who specifically and repeatedly equated homosexual acts with matters like the hybridization of cattle, which had long since become morally indifferent in the Christian tradition. (See The Code of Maimonides, bk.5, The Book of Holiness, 21.8) In the Lev passages it is also unclear what is being prohibited. The Hebrew reads literally, "You should not sleep the sleep of a women with a man." Jewish moralists have debated for a millennium about exactly what constitutes "the sleep of a women" and who is technically a "man": see e.g. in the Talmud, Sandedrin 7.4.53A; and Maimonides' commentary in Code 5.1.14. Moreover, since the actions of the "kadeshim" were specifically labeled as "toevah" (e.g., in 1 (3) Kings 14:24), one might well infer that the condemnation in Leviticus were in fact aimed at curbing temple prostitution in particular rather than homosexual behavior in general. This was not the usual understanding of the later Jewish tradition, but it is suggested by the LXX, upon which Christian moralists drew. As a Christian however, while respecting the Jewish right to their views, I am much more interested in the New Testament view which more clearly says nothing about today's homosexual relationships. Christian View of Slavery Same As Homosexuality The use of Christian doctrine that falsely condemns homosexuality is the same doctrine that the prior generation used to condone the practice of buying and selling humans as slaves. The Bible was used as justification for slavery, right up to the moment it was made illegal. Slavery was a common practice in the time of Jesus and earlier, yet Jesus himself said nothing about it. EX 21:20,21 God clearly says we can beat slaves to death. Ex 21:1-6 God says if a master allows his male slave to get married and have children, then the wife and children become the master's property too. Even if the male slave should gain his freedom, the wife and the children must remain with the master. So much for family values! Ephesians 6:5 is the NT support of slavery. Also according to Jewish culture at the time a women was supposed to marry her rapist! Think what following that requirement would do to a women raped today! Christians claimed Leviticus 25 supports servitude of up to 49 years. Although it was the Christians, not the Jews, who used the Bible to defend slavery. Montesquieu was considered a heretic for opposing slavery, and his works were condemned. One of the most infamous slave trading ships (that of Hawkins) was called the Jesus. Slavery was viewed as the will of God, and slaves were taught Christianity in order that they might recognize that "truth" and realize and accept that slavery was the natural order of things, sanctioned by the Bible itself. A minister writing in 1860 (in "Slavery, Its Institution and Origin" said: "So we see that God not only instituted slavery but He also made it to forever be a part of the moral probation of the human race, and to be a great lesson to the end of time of his abhorrence of sin." Just over 100 years ago in this country, people who considered themselves model Christians honestly and completely believed that slavery was morally right and opposing slavery was the real sin. The South - the so called "Bible Belt" appealed to the Bible to justify slavery. Remember that the Southern Baptist church got its start in the 1840's precisely over the issue of slavery. Preachers quoted Eph 6:5 to support slavery then, just as vigorously as Jerry Falwell misquotes Romans 1 to condemn homosexuality. But there's nothing unbiblical about slavery. Like everyone else of his time, Paul regarded slavery as a normal part of society. In Paul's time there was no understanding of loving homosexuality, only the terrible acts of pederasty - hetero males degrading other hetero males sexually. The Bible doesn't change but society understanding does. Today 2000 years later, we no longer practice pederasty or slavery. I hope soon, ant-gay sermons will be as dated as pro-slavery or anti-race mixing sermons are today. The Bible says not a word about homosexuality. The word homosexual was not even included in the English translations until about 1940. Only the confusion and ignorance about the horrible practices of pederasty being falsely translated as homosexuality is the cause of the false teachings and making life so difficult for so many loving wonderful Christian gays and lesbians. Witness of a Pentecostal Christian Lesbian Public Post from Lorraine Harris follows - What would those that say they know God is against homosexuals say to her? Do they know their communications with God is superior to hers? "I am a born-again believer, that is I met the Living Jesus & have a personal relationship with him since 1963. I am baptized in the Holy Ghost, and I speak in tongues and operate in a number of other gifts." "I am a "Lesbian" - I was born that way - for a number of years I believed the teachings of the churches regarding homosexuality, but in the early 1980's I had an experience which made me question the traditional interpretation of the Bible regarding homosexuality and God led me thru the scriptures with a final conclusion that as far as I could see homosexuality is not mentioned in the original texts of the Bible, not in the O.T. nor in the N.T." "It is certainly not mentioned nor prohibited in the traditional scriptures used to do that. The fact is that for many years I heard the Rama (Spirit) of God regarding many things and yet I continued to accept the false teachings of the church regarding homosexuality. After God showed me that there was no prohibition to homosexuality in the Bible He also showed me how that from time to time He tried to bring my attention to that this truth but that my own internalized homophobia prevented me from hearing from Him regarding these truths." Witness Of A Lesbian For Whom Heterosexuality Is The Unnatural Act Of Romans 1 Felicia Fontaine now a clergyperson with MCC discussing Romans 1 and "natural": "I believe my internal, intrinsic nature is to be lesbian, then for me to engage in heterosexual relationships would be wrong. I will go so far as to say that when I did try and deny my nature, my relationship with God suffered tremendously because I used men to help me feel better about myself, and I abused myself because I refused to accept who I believed and still believe God made me to be." A Minister Warning Homosexuals NOT to Join His Church Due To Ignorance Ignorance and prejudice about homosexuality is damaging even to the point of suicide. It is for that reason that I do not encourage gays and lesbians to become of our church and will not knowingly baptize one of God's gay children into the church unless they are determined and fully aware (and prepared to deal with) the hatred and prejudice they will face at the hand of fellow members. We as a church are not prepared to receive them and treat them with the equality and dignity which we recognize is every other minorities due. It is truly a sad state of affairs when people must be shielded from the negative consequences resulting from ignorance on the part of those who claim to represent Christ. I'm reminded of Hosea 4:6 "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge," only in cases like this our ignorance results in the destruction of other people. This is the ultimate travesty for we are here to help rather than to hurt people. Those with a sexual orientation that our members are not prepared to deal with should be referred elsewhere for spiritual nurture. As one stated "If you can't help them (without insisting on chastity or changing their natural sexual orientation), at least don't hurt them." Our church is no place for a person with a homosexual orientation, and we are the ones who lose out on the gifts and talents they can offer the body of Christ. The Adventist church does not support gays and lesbians unless they are willing to look with loathing and repugnance upon their sexual orientation, and spend their entire lives hating themselves for being what they are and denying themselves totally when it comes to sexual satisfaction. - Prodigy post Ron Astorly, Adventist minister. Fortunately many Christian Churches are battling the ignorance and false scriptural teachings and embracing gays and lesbians. But others and within congregation fighting for Gods love of all his children, regardless of what sexual orientation He gave them, stirs up hatred and division among Gods people. That is the abomination, not loving homosexual relationships. Catholic Reaction To Pope's Gay Attack "I can only take so much. Homophobia has been part of the Catholic Church for eons. But the Bishop of Rome (henceforth, that is how I address him) went too far in Vatican City when he viciously attacked Gay people who mean no harm to anyone. I'm tired of being treated like trash by the Catholic Church. It will be heart-wrenching to leave, but I now realize that the Catholic Church hates me and will never love me." "I shall write the Bishop of Rome (he is no longer my Pope) today although I know my letter will never, ever, be read by anyone in Vatican City of any importance, at least I will have had the satisfaction of explaining to hi Holiness that his vicious attack yesterday on gay people while saying Mass was the straw that broke the camel's back. I am no longer a Roman Catholic as of TODAY. And I am shocked seeing the sentence I have just written. I will go where I am loved and accepted and treated with human dignity at all times." - Xavier Salinger Public Prodigy post Reply by John Bernardi: "I sympathize with you completely. When I heard the Pope's address, I became very angry and very hurt. I was raised and educated in the Church and I finally realized how hypocritical the Church is after all. How can A church consider itself to be the heritage of Christ and proclaim a policy of social discrimination and hatred? I guess I cannot understand the outright hypocrisy of the whole matter. After all, the Church has idolized what can be considered a completely unnatural form of sexuality for centuries - celibacy. Yet, at the same time, it is now quick to condemn those individuals who seek to form healthy loving and long-term gay relationships (in marriage). But, then, Xavier, what can we really expect from a Church that only recently admitted that after all Galileo was right. In recent years, I have come to understand the difference between a relationship with a loving and always-present God and a relationship with a bureaucratic and dispassionate ecclesiastical organization." "Congratulations! Perhaps now you can join me and many others who could no longer accept an organization trapped by its own homophobia and discrimination. Perhaps you will come to agree with me that this was an organization that has lost Christ's message of compassion and love. Instead, it has become a Church guilty of blatant idolatry and ignorance." New Catechism Admits Homosexuality Natural But Makes God Very Unloving Catholics at least now recognize that homosexuals have no choice in their sexual orientation (a fact now proven psychologically and now finding genetic support) but consider their condition is "aberrant behavior which is against the natural order." Wow does that lack any logical Congruence! Lets see, God creates homosexuals giving them strong sexual desires and then forces them to live a life of misery, artificially repressing the natural sexual desire God gave them. That's quite a mean God, certainly not the one I know. First of all homosexuality is not a behavior, therefore it can not be aberrant. Homosexuality is an inborn/innate orientation not a behavior choice. Heterosexuals never have to be forced into celibacy. Why would God single out the persons created homosexual to live a life of forced celibacy, and then permit them to be so ostracized and abused by the heterosexual and religious community! This is a loving God? God created homosexuals to be homosexuals, responsible homosexuals, just as God created heterosexuals to be heterosexuals and to act as heterosexuals, responsible heterosexuals! It is wrong for either to act irresponsibly. Misuse or abuse of our sexuality, regardless of which variety, is wrong because THAT is against Gods will. Celibacy Is Unnatural The vast number of "conversions" of natural homosexuals, result not in a heterosexual desire but a life of celibacy out of fear of God due to false teachings that somehow homosexuality is sinful. If a man is born with only one leg, we provide an artificial leg, we don't pray that God will grow him a new one. But in essence, the homosexual is told to pray a lot and hop on one leg for all of life by being celibate. This call to celibacy is like saying "you can be a bird, but don't fly." Why would celibacy bring the homosexual into God's ideal of an integrated life of love? Does a lifetime of denial of true natural self and the refusal of the gift of loving human sexuality be more Christ's will? I think not, especially when no where in scripture is homosexuality as we know it today even mentioned it as sinful. Only the bigots and those that are perhaps so insecure with their own sexuality teach lies of hate rather than what is biblical - Christ's love for all that God created whether they were born left handed, right handed, heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual, it makes no difference. That's simply how God created them - no matter how insecure you are that doesn't change the facts. Even Common In Earliest Man In Sierra Da Capivara National Park in Brazil archaeologists have uncovered rocks used as tools by man and remains of fires dating back 60,000 years to the Stone Age. Some 1000 families live close to the park, eking out a living by hunting deer and armadillo. The people, most of them illiterate, gave little importance to hundreds of paintings found on the rocks of the mountains. Faded images in red, white, black and gray of wildlife, such as fish and deer, appear alongside stick-figures hinting and giving birth and graphic illustrations of Stone Age sex. Homosexuality, group sex and seemingly impossible positions for intercourse testify to the relaxed lifestyles of the ancient Brazilians. Guidon first heard of the paintings around 20 years ago and has since dated them back as far as 12,000 years. Over 500 Lutheran Church Leaders Support Gay/Lesbian Issues During the biennial assembly of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA), more than 500 church leaders broke silence and made public their support for the ecclesiastical recognition of loving committed relationships among lesbian and gay people, and for the ordination of qualified women and men as pastors and church professionals, regardless of sexual orientation. These church leaders, known as the Network (to end sexual discrimination in the ELCA), publicly released their names to an official representative of the ELCA. The group includes seminary professors, bishops, pastors, lay leaders and others. Bishop Emeritus Stanley E. Olson, a leader of the Network, is among those who publicly came out with his support. Bishop Olson said, "I have witnessed the unscriptural burdens the ELCA has placed on all of its many gay and lesbian members, whether lay or ordained. Ass one who has held the office of bishop in the church, I cannot remain passive or silent." Jesus' Praise For The Centurion Soldiers Slave Boy In Matthew and Luke Jesus is portrayed as tolerant of a pederastic relationship between the centurion and his "boy." A centurion had a slave (doulos) whom he valued highly (or who was very precious); this slave was ill and near death. Hearing about Jesus, he sent some Jewish elders with to request Jesus to save his slave's life. The centurion had faith He could cure him. Jesus said "I tell you, nowhere, even in Israel, have I found faith like this." and healed the slave boy. (Luke 7:2-10). The slightly different version in Matthew (8:5) refers in each instance to the boy as "boy" (pais), not slave (doulos). "Boy in Greek connotes a catamite or youth in a homosexual/pederastic relationship in the Greco-Roman world. These relationships were socially acceptable and not uncommon in that culture. The boy would not be trained to become a lifelong or adult homosexual if he was naturally heterosexual but often would remain bisexual. This public acceptance of pederasty, an institution which the Romans inherited from the Greeks, was accompanied, however, by a measure of public anxiety. Effeminacy and submissiveness, for example, were viewed with contempt. Roman aristocratic families increasingly protected their young men by law from such assignments. Hence the pederastic relationship was increasingly assigned to slaves, who had no social reputation to lose. The practice was very common in Jesus' day. Plutarch, the Greek biographer, who traveled widely and taught in Rome, was born about a decade after Jesus died. He discusses in his "Dialogue on Love" the question whether the love of boys is superior to the love of women, a critical question of the day. The tradition of the Greeks held the love of boys to be superior to a women. Readers or hearers of the story in the first century would unquestionably conclude, given the language that is used that the centurion was a pederast and his boy a catamite. Luke reinforces that impression by characterizing the boy as "very precious" to him. This supports a picture of Jesus as one who was tolerant of such relationships, a picture that is congruent with the rest of the New Testament. However, it is not enough to say that Jesus was merely tolerant of this apparent pederastic relationship. More then that, he was deeply impressed with the centurions faith as to make it a prime example in his teachings recalled by both Matthew and Luke. Internet Reply to My Centurion Discussion: From Cliff Hammond Internet Subject "Where does which Bible condemn Homosexuality": "Dave, your discussion of the centurions servant is very interesting. It raises some interesting questions. First, if the ministry of Jesus was to the Jews, as we are told in the Gospels, it is not surprising that the subject of homoeroticism did not present, given that the Jews universally considered homoeroticism (among males) to be a purity issue (toevan, but not zemia) and a practice of the "unclean Gentiles" with whom the Jews refused to mix socially. Therefore, when the opportunity DID present - in a setting in which the writers of the Gospels were not only recalling the incident of faith and healing to Jewish Christians but also to "Gentile" Christians - one would think that the writers of the Gospels would have desired to clarify the issue IF IT WERE AN ISSUE. Because, in their choice of words to label the functional relationship of the young male servant with his master, they did not rule out the possibility of homoeroticism (The Greek word, pais, connotes inclusion of homoeroticism within the scope of the master-slave relationship), they have - perhaps unintentionally - proffered a very strong argument from silence that such a homoerotic relationship simply was not an issue for them and their Hellenic culture. A discussion of the synoptic process might hold a key. If it is true that Q Source and the original Aramaic Gospel of Matthew was used as an outline for the Gospel of Mark, which was then used together with the original Aramaic Matthew as outlines for the Greek version of Matthew, it is interesting that the story of the Centurian's pais does not appear in Mark. That the story *does* appear in Luke using the Gk word duablos (sp?) argues for the possibility that Luke also used Aramaic Matthew (or Q) in addition to Mark as its outline. The Question then becomes why did Luke use diablos and not pais? If Luke used the gospel of Mark as an outline, where did he get the story of the healing of the Centurian's servant? From Aramaic Matthew? Luke's use of the Gk duablos for "servant" could be circumstantially explained as translation bias due to Luke's close association with Paul, a Pharisee who did address homoeroticism in his Letter to the Romans as a consequence of the Gentiles' idolatry. Why did Peter's secretary, Mark, choose not to use the story in his own gospel if he were truly using as his outline the Aramaic Matthew and the stories of Jesus' messianic ministry related by the Apostle Peter? Why did the author of the Gk version of Matthew choose the word pais translating from the original Aramaic Matthew and using the Gospel of Mark as its outline?" Nowhere in the NT did Jesus say a word, even mistranslated about this pederastic practice, much less anything about today's far different loving equal homosexual relationships. That such an understanding of this text would surprise the modern reader simply demonstrates the gulf that separates the world of the biblical times and modern days in the area of sexual values. King David's Love For Jonathan Samuel 1:25-26 clearly states male-male love is greater than that of a women. "I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou been unto me; THY LOVE TO ME WAS WONDERFUL, PASSING THE LOVE OF WOMEN." - King James or, Revised English " Jonathan lies slain on your heights. I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you are most dear to me; YOUR LOVE FOR ME WAS WONDERFUL, PASSING THE LOVE OF WOMEN." Is the same in all modern English versions. The speaker is King David. David was Jonathan's brother-in-law While some may not like the FACT that this is what the scripture says it does clearly state that the love between two men can be greater than between a man and a women. Many Christians are homophobic. They should try really loving homosexuals and they might find the fact homosexuals can deeply love each other not so difficult to grasp and accept. CONCLUDING STATEMENT USED ON PRODIGY Since I don't care to just go on debating with those that know they know what is right for others, this is going to try and be a concluding two part post on the issue. I am happy to share and discuss all points, but when the discussion just gets to arguing without any interest in seeking truth with an open mind, it is not productive. More and more sincere Christian theologian, scholars, historians and mainline congregations are finding that scriptures have been falsely translated or used to imply homosexuality is somehow a sin rather than the natural orientation it is. In the past many, including myself, just accepted the traditional teachings. But as more serious study of the original Greek/Hebrew and culture is done, it seems clear to many, that scripture says absolutely nothing about today's homosexual relationships. My biggest issue is that a Christian, before declaring homosexuality a sin, needs to first examine the huge amount of scholarship of sincere Christians that clearly show its only the false traditional teachings that make homosexuality a sin, clearly not the word of God. I can post lists and summaries of a sample of these studies. For many the thought is just too repulsive to consider, so they will refuse to listen since they are too homophobic to learn the truth. I may have been guilty of this in the past, since I don't even like to hug a man much less.... Others have a more open mind and will explore the issue for themselves not just accepting the same traditional views that in the past supported slavery, illness as demon possession, and Galileo's almost demise for teaching the earth was round, since this was heresy as the scriptures clearly say the earth is flat and the center of the universe. Also I suggest considering the living hell many sincere Christians experience just because God made them with a minority sexual orientation. Many wonderful, sincere Christian gays and lesbians find none of Christ's love in many Christian churches and flee, not knowing it the false teaching causing them to flee not the truth of God's love for them, as He created them. Many have tried for decades to deny their natural sexuality and force themselves either into fake heterosexual relationships or celibacy (just as bad) thinking they have to please God. Many finally get connected with other Church's where they learn God loves them just as He created them without having to change. That is, if they don't wind up committing suicide before they find the love of Christ rather than the judgement of Christians based on Levitical laws that we ignore in most other areas, or Paul's teachings which is about pederasty not homosexuality. It is interesting Jesus never said a word close to the subject and in fact Jesus shows special support for the love of the Centurion for his sick slave boy that appears to be a homosexual pederasty relationship. Many so called change ministries have come and gone trying to make gays straight. Since you can't change nature these have been terrible failures. I can post many documented examples and studies of the total failure of change ministries. Remember the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus changes all the "laws and the prophets" and replaces them with the only law of love. For those not capable or willing to seriously study this issue, I suggest you cover your mouth when you speak. Just like with a cold or any disease, the sickness of false teaching is easily spread. In this case it is destroying many lives and causing many Christians to turn away from Christ to find God's real love. I look forward to standing before God and being judged on my acceptance of all His children regardless of race, sex, or sexual orientation, will you be so comfortable? What if all the theologians exposing the false teachings of it being a sin, are correct and you are so wrong? Sample Of Real Gays Feelings Posted On Prodigy Board: MEDICAL SUPPORT BB Topic: DEPRESSION/ANX/OCD Subject: GAY YOUTH SUPPORT To: ALL Date: 09/26 From: AHXP28D ROB RYAN Time: 11:28 PM I hate to bring this board down to earth or anything but I have a lot I wanted to share with you all, so that hopefully it might help someone from getting into the mess I let myself get into. Where to start.... Since about Christmas 93, my whole life has been about death, all I wanted to do is die, my ambition was to be in a fatal accident since I was unsuccessful (and afraid) of suicide. I constantly thought about it.. almost every day. When I found this board, I wrote some notes.. many 'coded' - by that I mean, not very straight forward, kind of in riddles. I didn't want to say that I was suicidal. I'd write here for a while, get nothing from it and feel resentful. I felt so trapped - thought I had no where to go. I tried to call some phone number that I got here and elsewhere but had some very bad experiences with them. In one night I called 3 so called support groups and ended up eating a pack of sleeping pills that night (over-the counter - no harm done, just a scare). About 2 months ago, I came out to a friend of mine from work - she was the first. None of my family live here and this friend and I have become very close and one night after long and hard thought I told her - she knew something was up because I would be depressed so often. Anyway, after that, I thought everything would be OK, I thought this would change my life - but it didn't. After about six weeks I felt worse than ever and that's when the little sleeping pill incident took place. About six weeks later brings us up to yesterday. The last few days I had lost my appetite, just wanted to sleep all day and night etc, thought about killing myself constantly. Yesterday, I surfaced about 12:30 pm, drove down to the Laundromat to pick up my laundry and headed back home. I just wanted to end it, I couldn't get the steering wheel to veer into the lampposts. I was a wreck. I got home, got about 20 feet of cable from the closet and headed for the attic. I wanted to hang myself but there were no rafters there. I came into my bedroom and searched for pills but only had 3 tagamet and 2 or 3 sleeping pills. I thought about slashing my wrists, but could never bring myself to do that. My mind was exploding right inside my head, and I couldn't handle it. At that time, my friend (we'll call Joan) called me on the phone. She sensed something was wrong and I told her I needed help. Finally. She has been asking me to see a therapist or something for months, and I kept telling her there was nothing wrong, and I can handle anything myself - W R O N G ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Last night for the first time in my life, I spoke openly, face to face with two gay counsellors. It was very, very difficult at the start, but they made me feel very comfortable and at ease, and spent a lot of time with me. Today is a new day in the start of my new life, which I am going to dictate the pace. If I want to remain in the closet - that's my choice. If others don't accept me - that's their choice. There is no wrong way, or right way, or 'normal' way, or common way, or any other way of coming to terms with ones sexuality. It is so personal. And until the persons mind, can accept the simple fact that a small part of their life is 'different' from 'everyone' else, then they are not ready to go forward. I am now ready to move on, slowly. I'm going to take my time, do it as I want to. Just thought I'd share that with you. Love & Peace.... Rob. Questions for Heterosexuals When did you decide to become heterosexual ? Might your heterosexuality just be a phase you will grow out of ? Is it possible you just have an neurotic fear of people of your same sex? Isn't it possible that all you need is a good same sex lover? Your heterosexuality doesn't offend gays as long as you don't try and force it on them. Why do you feel compelled to seduce others into your heterosexual orientation? Why do you insist on holding hands and being obvious making a public spectacle of your heterosexuality? Can't you just be what you are and keep it quiet? How can you fully satisfy and understand your partner of the opposite sex when there are so many obvious physical, biological and temperamental differences between you that are so vast? How can a man understand what pleases a women sexually and vice-versa? With all the societal support for marriage, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals? How could the human race and all of nature survive if everyone were heterosexual like you, considering the menace of overpopulation to humanity and the environment? -------------------------------------------------------- Note: This is a public letter to Pat Robertson from OzActivist@aol.com, reposted on Prodigy by Bill Ply. It shows how dangerous Pat Robertson is in that so many of his "fans" actually believe his lies and false teachings concerning homosexuality. Pat is an abomination that needs to be exposed as such. He is a disgrace to Christians who seek scriptural truth not the perverted traditional views that have changed the original texts for an agenda based on repression and control. Re-posted by Davephx@primenet.com a biblical Christian who happened to have been born very heterosexual. I didn't choose my heterosexual orientation, it was simply how I was born. The same is true for those born homosexual or bisexual. Their only "sin" is being just as God created them. The "sin" is in the false teachings and twisting by the likes of Pat Robertson. Subject: PAT ROBERTSON To: ALL From: BILL PY (NPYR87B) FEEDBACK: * From OzActivist@AOL.COM: [A letter to Pat Robertson, whose 700 Club is presenting a 3-part 3-day series on homosexuality March 26-28,1996] Dear Dr. Robertson, Hope all is well with you. I am writing you concerning the first of your "three part series on homosexuality: dispelling the myths". I am glad you at least put on a sugar coated patina of "loving concern" this time around and dropped the "homosexuals are Nazis and Satanists" sound bite, but your broadcast still very much angered me. You did not dispel a single myth, you spread them nationwide tonight like so much fertilizer. And you are doing two more just like this tomorrow and Thursday. My father has always loved, supported and accepted me, Pat, EXCEPT for my sexual orientation. According to your obsolete notions, then, I ought to be heterosexual. Well, I'm not. The only way he could have been more accepting would be to drop his religion-based homophobia, and yet this is exactly what you do not want him to do. You claim that "most" lesbians are lesbian because of sexual abuse by males. You threw out a figure like "29%" which is certainly not "most" by any standard. Does it ever occur to you, Pat, that one reason many lesbians are raped or abused by predatory men is that the man finds out the woman's sexual orientation and then threatens to tell everyone unless she goes along with his wishes? Others have raped lesbians claiming that they have a Godgiven imperative to "teach them how to be a woman". I had such a friend in Santa Barbara who was raped by an HIV positive straight man and died of AIDS in 1994. She is dead in part because of the myths spread by people like you. Such antigay figures as Dr. Socarides and Phyllis Schlafly have gay children. How do you explain that? Were they bad parents? Then what business do they have telling other parents how to raise their children???? You insist that most homosexuals are unhappy because all the ones that called your counsellors said so. Does it occur to you that the ones who are well adjusted and accept themselves would not be calling your counselling lines in the first place? Hello??? Furthermore, does it ever occur to you that any homosexuals who are unhappy are that way not because it is pathological but because of the level of antigay persecution and sometimes the difficulty in meeting the "right person" from a small portion of the population than heterosexuals can choose from? Have you ever read studies that show that gays are happier in liberal big cities than in intolerant rural and small town places? Your show's "refutations" of the gene studies were very weak. You commented on the fact that not all identical twins had the same sexual orientation as "proof" that it cannot be genetic. First of all, there is no way to prove some of the twins were not lying about their sexual orientation, and second, sexual orientation may also be influenced by in utero levels of hormone exposure. It's been found that human twins often receive disparate hormone exposure even if they are gestated at the same time. Experiments with lab mammals have found these exposures can permanently determine the animal's sexual orientation, and there may be some parallels to human development. It ain't just the genes, pal. For someone so obsessed with other women's pregnancies and their right to decide on whether to terminate them, Pat, you certainly are ignorant about reproduction. You also cited the fact that one study's author was gay, and that therefore the study had to be rejected as biased. Then you had Robert Knight of Family Research Council, an antigay group, comment. Why are "biased" sources discounted when they disagree with you and counted when they agree with you? You mentioned that the Hamer study was being investigated for fraud, but so is antigay researcher Paul Cameron, who was expelled for distorting the findings of other researchers and expelled by the APA in 1984. And what did you do, Pat? You had Mr. Cameron appear on the 700 Club as a "scientific expert on homosexuality". HA! Your guest, Mr Davies of Exodus, claims he is proof that homosexuality is not permanent because he was attracted to men for a while and never acted on it. That is not coming out of homosexuality, Pat, that is called bisexuality. Look it up in the dictionary. The fact that not all people are gay or straight does not mean it is not hereditary, only that it may be a mix, much as hair color has a broad spectrum that is determined by genes. I certainly felt bad for the woman featured tonight who said she grew up teased for her appearance and was never accepted. My arm was broken in seventh grade gym because a ninth grader had decided I was a "Faggot". I can only shudder to think what would have happened if he had actually known that for a fact. I also shudder to think what would have happened if I had succeeded in a 1984 suicide attempt that resulted in a two week hospital stay and extensive counselling, as a result of which I am now mentally healthy and productive. But, I still have scars on my left hand to remind me that this happens to lots of kids This is the kind of event that some schools are trying to stop by teaching students it is wrong to be hateful toward gay young people, and your followers, Pat, are the ones resisting that every step of the way. Your story on this woman implied that she became a lesbian because of her loneliness and someone who "recruited" her by showing love and acceptance. Then, you talk about this fundamentalist woman who did the same thing, and cite this as "proof" that people can "come out of homosexuality". Pat, the two situations are the same thing. She was looking for love and she probably is still attracted to women. Her sexual orientation has nothing to do with her being celibate. As documented by the APA, Exodus is a fraud that has left thousands of gay and lesbian people with huge bills and crushed psyches. Its male cofounders didn't even stay straight, they fell in love with each other and denounced the group. What a farce! A Tennessee woman in your audience asked what her church should do about a gay man who had a sex change to female. She seemed very sincerely concerned. You visibly snickered. Gender reassignment surgery costs up to $30,000 dollars, Pat, and it is only allowed if the patient has extensive counselling first to make sure this drastic change is the right idea. This person was in a lot of pain if he went through all that to become a she, and what was your Christian response to that? You snickered and then said "I think this is such a small group of people that it doesn't really matter". Well. I thought you believed "A person is a person is a person"? Gays and lesbians, according to you, are a small group of people, and yet you spend almost all your time obsessed with making their lives difficult. A lot of transgendered people are not gay to begin with. Please read some materials on this phenomenon. A Tennessee man in the audience then asked whether gays were really 10% of the population, and you claimed this was only found by fraudulent studies done by Kinsey. You said that "every study I've seen has shown that 2% of men and 1% of women are lesbians and that's it!" Pat, with people like you around encouraging hostility to gays and lesbians, did it occur to you that a lot of people surveyed probably lied that they were straight or refused to participate? Hello?? Even your "scientific" friend Dr Paul Cameron, who hates gays so much he has called for their extermination (see Koop's autobiography), puts the figure at 3% (TIME, Nov 15 1992). Your cohost, Terry Meeuwwsen, claimed PFLAG stood for "Parents Friends and *Lovers* of Gays". The LAG actually stands for Lesbians and Gays. You are that ignorant about a group that you are suing to stop ads that accurately patote your own hateful words? Finally, you explicitly said that "sexual orientation" does not keep anyone from going to heaven, and that only if homosexuals are "in the promiscuous lifestyle" will they go to hell. The assumption here seems to be that homosexuals are either celibate or promiscuous, never monogamous. Have you ever read the Ninth Commandment that you keep trying to force public schools to display? Your confusion of the Koine Greek word for temple prostitute in Revelations with "homosexual" was a particularly poor bit of Biblical exgesis, but I digress. Directly following your 9 pm broadcast, your Family Channel featured a "Three Stooges" short in which the Stooges dressed up as women. Now why, Pat, do you take the "abomination" thing about homosexuals so seriously and then feature crossdressing on your network, when Leviticus mention *both* as abominations? It appears, Pat, that you really take your show, and the pain of people like the transgendered woman your audience mentioned, about as seriously as you take the Stooges. Shame on you. You are causing real pain and violence, Pat, and you need to STOP IT. NOW. Pat Robertson concluded his three-part series tonight on the Family Channel about the "Myth" of homosexuality by declaring that, "The nightmare of AIDS is a consequence of a person's behavior." Once again, Pat hit hard on the theme that for one man to lie down with another is an abomination. He also made repeated reference to a transformation which he and his co-hosts described as "Coming out of homosexuality." Videotaped footage of a gay man was shown. In the interview, the man stated, "I struggled with homosexuality for over ten years." Pat said that "Prayer helped him overcome his attraction to men," but it was too late: "He died as a result of his homosexual behavior." In-studio guest, Anita Worthen was brought out to give her testimony as to what it is like to be a Christian mother of a gay man. Her son, 31, has full-blown AIDS and according to her, "was led into the homosexual lifestyle by a guidance counselor. He was seduced and trapped by him. Not having a father figure around causes homosexuality," in her opinion. Her son had a lover of 10 years who died of AIDS. She said you can still show love to your children without showing them approval." [Love without affirmation? I don't think so.] "Homosexuality causes parents to go through shame...guilt..." Later, Anita married one of the founders of Exodus (a "de-gaying support group" which uses fear and coercion to brainwash homosexuals into a twisted brand of Christianity). Her own husband was homosexual until he was forty-something. They married when he was 55. Pat asked her what was going through her mind when she married him, "knowing he had been a homosexual," and she responded, "Sex isn't a big thing for women." She said they just cuddle. Pat actually said that sexual preference is going to go away with age. "Then, what happens with your spirit?" he asked, rhetorically. Pat said hundreds of people have been calling in to the 700 Club the past couple of days who want out of homosexuality. "Many of them are depressed and suicidal because of it." He urged viewers in this situation to call his ministry by saying, "If you want to be free, I want you to call, right now." A person wrote in a question to Pat Robertson that was read on the air to ask if they should attend their brother's gay wedding. Pat answered, "I don't think so. I think showing up to that wedding would be putting your stamp of approval on it. Tell your brother, 'I think it's wrong and I just can't go along with this stuff.'" Dr. Robertson also explained that the concept that God is a God of Love is misunderstood. "He's also a God of Wrath. Read Deuteronomy. When Moses is speaking... 'You shall love the Lord your God and fear the Lord your God. God is a consuming fire.' He sets standards for human beings." Pat used adultery as an example. Also in Pat Robertson's own words: "Homosexuality is not loving, it's lust. And whether or not YOU think it's love is tough luck." "I think we are destroyed when we have this Council of Rabbis and Churches, which says that we have to acknowledge this so-called loving relationship. God says, 'I don't recognize it.'" Pat rationalized his tone by declaring, "This isn't harsh, we LOVE people." "Homosexuality is bringing terrible disease to the world, not just AIDS - Intestinal disease, and various other types of so-called STDs, we have an epidemic of STDs," Pat also said. In response to another alleged viewer question, Pat said that effeminate mannerisms will go away if a person comes out of homosexuality. "Effeminate mannerisms are learned." Co-host, Terry Meeuwwsen also observed, "a man carries himself a certain way." Perhaps the only humor in the program came when Pat referred to a previous segment in the series that highlighted a transsexual. "[She] was gorgeous, with the makeup and everything. Still a good-looking man, even though he was now a woman. He drew my attention." Pat seemed disoriented and slightly confused as he squirmed in his seat. Pat and his co-hosts compared homosexuality to alcoholism and drug addiction. He also complained that P-FLAG was accusing him of causing teen depression and suicides. He lamented, "I'm just trying to tell the loving truth of the Gospel. If people feel guilty, it's because they feel that way for not following the laws of God. They hate what they're doing and not sure how they can get out of it." Pat said, "That's no reason to go to the Gay Parade in San Francisco and blaze out." Bill Py, Special Contributor, G/L/B/T BB Note: Pat Robertson's e-mail address is: webmaster@cbn.org Replies of interest: From: RON SEELEY (HYUT32A) Replying to another comment of JG:JG, my sentiment exactly. I enjoyed reading Bill's message to Robertson and appreciate the time he spent researching and composing it. I specially liked his documentation of the lies and distortion of simple everyday fact. But people like Robertson get similar messages like this all the time. It's just part of the cost of doing business - you win some you loose some. Sometimes I try to put myself in Robertson's position with all that dough rolling in and, although I see myself as a fairly nice guy, it sure would be a temptation to keep the ball rolling onto bigger and better things. As you say, he knows what buttons to push. It seems that's about all he does know. It's a simple trick, but the dollars just keep on coming. Now, why can't I find a job like that? The sad thing though is that Robertson is the antithesis of the one that he purports to emulate. Instead of Christ I fear we have a Judas in our midst. As the story goes, in the beginning Judas truly loved Christ. The problem was that Christ never grew into the person Judas wanted him to be. The truth is that when you look deeply into the heart of everyman you will find a Judas. It's just that most do not allow themselves to become a prostitute for that baseness. But then again - some do. Hope this helps. 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